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* - declanL - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:03 PM)Nevieth Wrote: I'm sensing a ton of sarcasm off you, and if that's true then please leave this thread. You may disagree with LGBT, but we have a right to prove ourselves and to clean up any misconceptions that people like yourself have.I know it wasn't my sarcasm there you mean there because I wasn't being sarcastic about boxes, but I meant there are times when I thought I might be B. But the world seems to want us all to be either G or H. That was what I meant. What do Bs do to get by?
* - Cyph Jr - Jan 5, 2015
You can add me in there I am a lesbian.
* - Nevieth - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:08 PM)declanL Wrote: I know it wasn't my sarcasm there you mean there because I wasn't being sarcastic about boxes, but I meant there are times when I thought I might be B. But the world seems to want us all to be either G or H. That was what I meant. What do Bs do to get by?
I'm not sure why you're shortening the words, but nonetheless, fair enough.
When I was growing up I thought I was bisexual as well, I've always had a crush on this guy in my class since I learned about that sort of thing. I also had a "crush" on this girl though, she was pretty cute and really nice to me. I look back on it now though, and I never thought of her as anything but a friend. I think she liked me in return though, so sadly I was the one who friendzoned her.
Oh and what is G and H? Do you mean G=gay and H=heterosexual? if you're doing that, might want to use S=straight instead, as H=homosexual too. :P
If you want to learn more about being bisexual you should talk to Woden.
(Jan 5, 2015 05:09 PM)Cyph Jr Wrote: You can add me in there I am a lesbian.
Well since I've talked to you on Skype before and you're clearly a man, I'm not going to do that. Plus this is a purely Phoenix based thread.
* - Cyph Jr - Jan 5, 2015
I love you Nevieth, how's everything?
* - Nevieth - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:16 PM)Cyph Jr Wrote: I love you Nevieth, how's everything?
I'm doing pretty good, but can we keep any lovely chit chat to PMs or Skype? Thanks Cyph Jr, love you. :P
* - declanL - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:12 PM)Nevieth Wrote: I'm not sure why you're shortening the words, but nonetheless, fair enough.No man, it was just that Woden said he was B. I was following that. You're right it's best to go with clear vocab.
But your reply (respect for the sharing) also illustrates the point. There's the tendency to go for either gay or heterosexual in thinking about one's identity. What about the B situation? That's all I meant.
* - Nevieth - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:17 PM)declanL Wrote: No man, it was just that Woden said he was B. I was following that. You're right it's best to go with clear vocab.
But your reply (respect for the sharing) also illustrates the point. There's the tendency to go for either gay or heterosexual in thinking about one's identity. What about the B situation? That's all I meant.
B=bisexual means you're attracted to both male and female, and P=pansexual means you're attracted to anyone of any gender. (Yes, there's more than just male or female).
I can only talk from my experience from being a G=homosexual, but life can get pretty hard with so much judgement and hate, but we all stand strong together and remain open minded. Love is love.
* - declanL - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:20 PM)Nevieth Wrote: B=bisexual means you're attracted to both male and female, and A=asexual means you're attracted to anyone of any gender. (Yes, there's more than just male or female).
I can only talk from my experience from being a G=homosexual, but life can get pretty hard with so much judgement and hate, but we all stand strong together and remain open minded. Love is love.
Okay then, I think I understand. I am A because I just love people, regardless of gender.
I myself am just so tired of the hate and intolerance out there for people's sexuality. It hits at the core and I get that, feel it.
I am sorry people have a go at you for your sexuality. I wouldn't ever do that to anyone, but I think I do it to myself.
* - ANDOO - Jan 5, 2015
Wow! I got some great advice from the OP! Thanks a lot.
* - Nevieth - Jan 5, 2015
(Jan 5, 2015 05:36 PM)ANDOO Wrote: Wow! I got some great advice from the OP! Thanks a lot.
No problem man, I'm here to help clear up questions or misconceptions by anyone, ask anything and I'll gladly answer it.
* - Eternal. - Jan 6, 2015
Pretty nice helpdesk, hopefully you can help clear up some issues people are having regarding human sexuality.
* - Nevieth - Jan 7, 2015
(Jan 6, 2015 04:27 PM)Eternal. Wrote: Pretty nice helpdesk, hopefully you can help clear up some issues people are having regarding human sexuality.Thanks Eternal, I'm online now to answer any questions, you can private message me or post them in the thread. <3
* - Sparkfear - Jan 7, 2015
[Question to T's]
A friend of mine is born as a female but wants to be a male.
She's not 18 yet therefore she has to listen to her parents who don't like this idea and also want to stop her therapy because her therapist told her she should move out and become who she wants.
I really want to support her/him, but I don't exactly know how.
Also I keep confusing him and her, how I should call her/him and maybe if there are things I should be careful of with speaking about?
In general, I don't know how to support her but what I do let her/him know is that I accept her/him the way (s)he is and what ever choices (s)he makes I will always be there.
* - El Chapo Jr. - Jan 7, 2015
Have you ever been penetrated in the bum then given the guy a blowjob? I've always imagined the penis would still taste/smell like shit. The bum could only be so clean right?
* - Nevieth - Jan 7, 2015
(Jan 7, 2015 10:04 AM)sparkfear Wrote: [Question to T's]
A friend of mine is born as a female but wants to be a male.
She's not 18 yet therefore she has to listen to her parents who don't like this idea and also want to stop her therapy because her therapist told her she should move out and become who she wants.
I really want to support her/him, but I don't exactly know how.
Also I keep confusing him and her, how I should call her/him and maybe if there are things I should be careful of with speaking about?
In general, I don't know how to support her but what I do let her/him know is that I accept her/him the way (s)he is and what ever choices (s)he makes I will always be there.
Someone who's more qualified to answer your question then myself will post soon. :D
(Jan 7, 2015 10:13 AM)Bawsaq Wrote: Have you ever been penetrated in the bum then given the guy a blowjob? I've always imagined the penis would still taste/smell like shit. The bum could only be so clean right?
I'm personally more on the giving end however we normally do the blowjob beforehand. Or you use a condom during it, then take it off afterwards for whatever is left (if you use a condom, it wont smell or taste weird). LOL That's the best way I could answer it.