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how do i stop freezing up talking to girls?{help please} - xMadnez - Oct 26, 2011
hey,
so basically i was talking to 2 girls with my friend on chat and it was good we were just flirting and messing about, anywayz later that night on skype my friends called me up into a group call with a different girl and i said hey, she did but then it just went awkward :/ and i like freeze up, and then they started talking and well i just didnt speak cause i was so nervous, so they kicked me from the convo , i dont blame them it just made the convo laggy, so how do i overcome this i feel really irritated that i cant just talk to girls face to face or voice to voice AHH frustrating
anyway any help would be greatfull
THANKS
P.S trolls FUCK OFF
* - Milonymas - Oct 26, 2011
There's is no tutorial on overcoming shyness, It rest on your shoulders buddy, But sometimes, appearance can help confidence, Buy a suit to talk to girls, lol
* - xMadnez - Oct 26, 2011
Loool im 13 :) but thx anyway i was lookin for i dunno somin i can do like a ebook or just tips but thanks anyway
* - Vater - Oct 26, 2011
You just really need to build your confidence up. And also just stop thinking about people judging you. But not to a point where your like one of those weird kids or anything. Just trust me it will happen you just got to get use to it.
* - Milonymas - Oct 26, 2011
If your 13.... by a small suit, lol, alright, This is how i get by, "I see everything from a first person perspective and can't see through the eyes of others, for all i know, this could be a dream, a scripted movie that im ment to act in, this world revolves around me, nothing i can do can kill me, hurt me maybe, but not kill me, I am god" think that everyday and you shouldn't have a problem... cept im me and... Im a God of this dream xD
* - xMadnez - Oct 26, 2011
Thanks to both of you @ Milonymas thats actually a really good technique gonna use it :) hopefully 2morrow since there at a under 18s club 2day
Thanks
* - zero75 - Oct 26, 2011
nobody can help you with that , ur 13 , u will learn ;)
* - umadd - Oct 26, 2011
strange thing to post this on hackforums but u need to see girls as a tool u will use her to bake ur food later.
so next time ask her how she is called so u can shout her name that the dinner is not ready.
Ask her age becouse if she aint 18 u can't post her naked photo's later.
Most important Ask her if she wants to dinner with u maby cook together!
Cuz if she can't cook shes not a girl!
* - SuperSperm - Oct 26, 2011
Dude, it's the internet. There's no reason to be shy on the internet. Just talk like you normally would.
* - CloudddY - Oct 26, 2011
Its all about the confidence my friend. It's all in your head. Just keep talking to girls and you will eventually stop freezing up.
* - xMadnez - Oct 26, 2011
thanks and to the other posts: girls arent tools and yeah its ONLY the internet i know them but i dont know the girl so i know them in real life