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Money rules the world and makes the rules - Lolbot - Jul 19, 2014
So i met this women last month, we had an awesome time and she really was into me. But when she realized (after sex, good for me) that i'm just a student and for the next 3 years i wont have a job she send me a text: "I have higher expectation of a men, you're not worth having me" and deleted me everywhere. I look wealthy because my parents are, but i just have what my parents give me wich is not much.
So now i get shitfaced drunk every night and probably will fail my exams. Why is it so hard to forget someone?
I also realized that money really rules the world and everything around you.
Good thing at least i realized that she's a really shallow women that just cares about money and nothing else. Still feel shitty because that was the first time someone gave me affection.
Felt like sharing, sorry if its LQ or wrong section. I just needed someone to talk to.
* - Greybolt - Jul 19, 2014
Lolbot, she isn't worth it, as you said she's shallow and you dodged a bullet bro. But that doesn't make it any easier, I get it. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send a pm. I respect you for not sponging off your parents and living your own life. Plenty of girls out there who will be down to earth and on your level.
Hope you feel better soon bro, I know it hurts like crap sometimes, revising for exams is hard enough as it is without all this drama. Wish I could make you forget about her by telling you to, but it doesn't work out like that. So all I can say is hope you feel better soon and I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
* - Lolbot - Jul 19, 2014
(Jul 19, 2014 02:47 PM)Seori Wrote: Lolbot, she isn't worth it, as you said she's shallow and you dodged a bullet bro. But that doesn't make it any easier, I get it. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send a pm. I respect you for not sponging off your parents and living your own life. Plenty of girls out there who will be down to earth and on your level.
Hope you feel better soon bro, I know it hurts like crap sometimes, revising for exams is hard enough as it is without all this drama. Wish I could make you forget about her by telling you to, but it doesn't work out like that. So all I can say is hope you feel better soon and I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
Thanks a lot man i really appreciate it! Yea she is not worth my time. But she gave me the feeling of being somebody special to someone. Being worth something. And that feeling was really heartwarming. If i had the world i'd give it to her. But its hard to realize that she's not worth it. Yea i'll switch subjects probably. Long story short: Couldn't sign up for the subject i wanted so i chose a random one wich i hate. And all that doesn't make i better because what i would need the most would be support. So all i do all day i wake up, learn to code, get wasted and sleep. Good thing i hate my golden rule to not take drugs or i would be in a deep hole.
What i say to myself all the time to feel better is that she's 27 and i'm 21 so that will never really work out. I guess she searched a guy to settle down with and work anymore. She is a stripper as i found out later. So theres that.
* - verifiableclutch - Jul 19, 2014
Yeah what was said above. She isn't worth the time, however the title has nothing to do with this post.
* - MeaningOfLife - Jul 19, 2014
Cash rules everything around me. C.R.E.A.M Yeah bitches be tripp'n and snitch'n. Just keep em out your business til' you ready for children, other than that 1 night stands or a great side hoe, never get involved. Don't think about a highschool hunny cuz there is none. It's fucking 2014 and every girl loses their virginity @ 13-15 and feel like they have to be a certain way lol. Be yourself and obtain money live happy. Fuck bitches.
* - Lolbot - Jul 19, 2014
(Jul 19, 2014 03:55 PM)I Dab BHO Wrote: Cash rules everything around me. C.R.E.A.M Yeah bitches be tripp'n and snitch'n. Just keep em out your business til' you ready for children, other than that 1 night stands or a great side hoe, never get involved. Don't think about a highschool hunny cuz there is none. It's fucking 2014 and every girl loses their virginity @ 13-15 and feel like they have to be a certain way lol. Be yourself and obtain money live happy. Fuck bitches.
Thing is she's 28 and i'm 21. We ain't no highschool kids no more. But that doesn't even matter you're absolutely right. Make the best out of my situation. I decide what i'll become and nobody else. I write my book and decide when wich chapter begins and ends. I'm the pen of my life and i have to lead it, nobody else.
thanks for the kind words.
(Jul 19, 2014 02:57 PM)verifiableclutch Wrote: Yeah what was said above. She isn't worth the time, however the title has nothing to do with this post.
Yea the title is kind of offtopic. My point was that with money i could've had her. If i could i would but i can't. But it's good that i went down that way. I realized and saw how and who she really is. But it was a dead end anyway as i stated above she's 28 i'm 21. There was no point whatsoever. When i'm finished with my studies i'll be 24-25. I guess she just wanted to find someone to settle that pays everything for her. But i'm not that guy.
* - gas66 - Jul 19, 2014
Step one to realizing how fucked up and materialistic people are now a days. I do agree with women who are looking for a succesful and serious man but those bitches that look for a gold mine are just ridicilous sluts and most importantly they are everywhere now. Just fuck and run bro if someone is really interested in you and worth a while then you will find out.
* - Greybolt - Jul 19, 2014
(Jul 19, 2014 02:52 PM)Lolbot Wrote: Thanks a lot man i really appreciate it! Yea she is not worth my time. But she gave me the feeling of being somebody special to someone. Being worth something. And that feeling was really heartwarming. If i had the world i'd give it to her. But its hard to realize that she's not worth it. Yea i'll switch subjects probably. Long story short: Couldn't sign up for the subject i wanted so i chose a random one wich i hate. And all that doesn't make i better because what i would need the most would be support. So all i do all day i wake up, learn to code, get wasted and sleep. Good thing i hate my golden rule to not take drugs or i would be in a deep hole.I'm sorry about the subject. Must be tough man, support like you said is what you need. I sent a pm bro. I know how it feels to feel special and have it taken away. It's not to be underestimated and feels like serious crap, and I never felt more alone like I did at that time. I slowly got better and went out and socialised, met new people as much as i could. Made great friernds andI'm stronger now for it. Its OK to feel like shit now, but not longer than needed bro.
What i say to myself all the time to feel better is that she's 27 and i'm 21 so that will never really work out. I guess she searched a guy to settle down with and work anymore. She is a stripper as i found out later. So theres that.
* - Heart of Kings - Jul 19, 2014
You don't want a girl who uses you for your money you want a girl who loves you for who you are and will love you the same even if you become jobless
* - Phobix - Jul 19, 2014
Seems life taught you something and you got out of being in a shit situation.
Be glad you dodged a bullet.
* - guard - Jul 19, 2014
I've been in the same place as you friend, my only advise for this situation is find a few albums you enjoy get some good headphones and just kick it.
//time heals all wounds man, and be grateful for this experience, trust me.
* - Lolbot - Jul 19, 2014
(Jul 19, 2014 04:47 PM)Rabies¥ Wrote: You don't want a girl who uses you for your money you want a girl who loves you for who you are and will love you the same even if you become jobless
Yea i realized that too. But if i even had the money i would've given it to her. I don't even know why i didn't realized it earlier or meanwhile. But i guess that's only making me human. Yea i hope i'll find that one girl someday.
(Jul 19, 2014 04:48 PM)Phobix Wrote: Seems life taught you something and you got out of being in a shit situation.
Be glad you dodged a bullet.
It really did. And yes i really have. It was incredibly hard to keep up with her lifestyle only being a student and only getting money from my parents.
I guess oneday i'll find an ever more attractive girl that really likes me for the person i am and not the person she wants me to represent.
* - RelationShit - Jul 19, 2014
Stop poisoning your precious self with alcohol and study hard for your exams.
You're not being able to forget her because you're only busy with focusing on her, I'm guessing.
Delete everything that reminds you of her. And just kill the thoughts/emotions that still want her.
This wasn't love. This wasn't even sex. This was probably lust -> 'sex' -> k
Sex with love from both sides is better. So I'm told.
You will meet a better girl. Just kidding man, you won't.
But.. You will meet better girlS. GIRLS!
FUCKING PLURAL NIGGGGG'!!!!!!
YOU SEXYFUCK GO STUDY ND GET DIPLOMA ND GET JOB N DEN FUK PUSAY ALL DEY LONG OMFGZZZZZZ party HARD BREEH
* - Lolbot - Jul 19, 2014
(Jul 19, 2014 04:51 PM)guard Wrote: I've been in the same place as you friend, my only advise for this situation is find a few albums you enjoy get some good headphones and just kick it.
//time heals all wounds man, and be grateful for this experience, trust me.
yea that's what i'm doing right now. Music is awesome medicine. Noneed for anti depressive when you have good music.
(Jul 19, 2014 04:52 PM)RelationShit Wrote: Stop poisoning your precious self with alcohol and study hard for your exams.
You're not being able to forget her because you're only busy with focusing on her, I'm guessing.
Delete everything that reminds you of her. And just kill the thoughts/emotions that still want her.
This wasn't love. This wasn't even sex. This was probably lust -> 'sex' -> k
Sex with love from both sides is better. So I'm told.
You will meet a better girl. Just kidding man, you won't.
But.. You will meet better girlS. GIRLS!
FUCKING PLURAL NIGGGGG'!!!!!!
YOU SEXYFUCK GO STUDY ND GET DIPLOMA ND GET JOB N DEN FUK PUSAY ALL DEY LONG OMFGZZZZZZ party HARD BREEH
That's what my dad said to me. Study hard for 3 more years and when girls realize its no all about the looks, they'll be all over me. I'm not implying i'm shitfacedugly but i'm not pumped and you're 0815 beachboy. More the nerdy shy skinny guy. But yea you're right i'm beating myself up about that thing. I never said it was love, but i got affection from somebody else for the first time, and it was awesome. It was a big step for me.
Thanks for the kind words though.
* - MIXSTAR - Jul 19, 2014
you learn as you go so this was a good thing