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Need someone [Innuendo] - Godlypkz - Jan 15, 2017
I don't know what I need. I'm glad there's Hackforums because I can come on here, express my feelings without a direct impact on what happens off the internet.
So anyway, there's a few things I'd like to talk about.
Firstly, I've been talking to this girl for years, (I was chirpsing her when she had a boyfriend back in secondary school, she's a year above xd) but only till after she broke up with her boyfriend, a couple months ago we got really into talking. We met up just us two a couple times, cinema and bla bla - conversations flowed well, a few awkward moments at first meeting up but that's normal lol. I literally spoke to this girl for days without ending, similar interests and so on.
Recently, the conversations have been forced to an extent and just doesn't flow like they used to. I'd say I still like this girl but I know that the convos weren't how they used to be. Anyway, I stopped messaging her to see if she would message me - which she did once. After that I messaged her, we spoke for a bit then didn't speak again (yesterday). Today I didn't message her and she didn't message me, and I don't think I should message her until she messages me first, cause I don't like forcing things and I'd like to see whether or not she actually still likes me.
I don't just talk to her, I talk to quite a few girls every now and then but not the way I do with her. For example, I wouldn't take any of the other girls out to the cinema or shit like that. But what puts me off is that I have friends that tell me they know other people that also talk to her, sexually and so on. This actually pisses me off because I'm not sure what the girl wants... I don't think it's just sex or whatever because I asked her to come to a hotel and she's like "noo its too early bla bla, a few months later.." and shit like that. But she's always talking about sex and shit to me like wtf bitch don't lead a nigga on like that. E.G we were in some enclosed place (woods xd) in my car making out then I progressed into getting my willy sucked but she said its too early. Too early? My nigga you don't pop up anymore, the conversations aint how they used to be, what the fuck you want????
Anyway, all jokes aside, I like this girl but I don't know the position I'm in at the moment. Shall I carry on talking to her? Or has she lost interest? I want a girl in my life, alot of things are on the downside atm and I think I need love to keep things intact.. Thanks for taking your time to read, feedback would be great 🙂
* - oscast - Jan 15, 2017
I think you need to be upfront, meet up somewhere and ask questions. Girls think that boys pick up on everything they drop off (Hints, etc.) I was pretty much the same thing with my ex, all those complications and just guessing got it destroyed in the end. Talk talk talk.
(from experience but no expert haha)
* - Godlypkz - Jan 16, 2017
(Jan 15, 2017 03:32 PM)Tsutaya Dai Wrote: I think you need to be upfront, meet up somewhere and ask questions. Girls think that boys pick up on everything they drop off (Hints, etc.) I was pretty much the same thing with my ex, all those complications and just guessing got it destroyed in the end. Talk talk talk.
(from experience but no expert haha)
I try hinting things aswell but it's either she don't understand or avoids it LOL
* - Rada - Jan 16, 2017
this girl sounds like a hoe
did you do the dutty wine with her yet?
* - Godlypkz - Jan 16, 2017
(Jan 16, 2017 09:54 AM)Rada Wrote: this girl sounds like a hoe
did you do the dutty wine with her yet?
Lool soon
* - Birdperson - Jan 16, 2017
Many girls prefer guys to pop up without consent if they've been talking continuously, If you like her then try a bit harder there's no harm in that. In all honestly, do you believe you and this girl could become a thing?
* - Godlypkz - Jan 16, 2017
(Jan 16, 2017 10:04 AM)Inspirε Wrote: Many girls prefer guys to pop up without consent if they've been talking continuously, If you like her then try a bit harder there's no harm in that. In all honestly, do you believe you and this girl could become a thing?
Yeah we definitely could. She's different to other girls I've spoke to, but it hasn't been the same recently. So IDK
* - Rada - Jan 17, 2017
You could try taking her back to the trap house, once she sees u wippin that its a wrap
say no more
* - phunted - Jan 17, 2017
Stop being weak and talk to her & be upfront.
* - Godlypkz - Jan 18, 2017
Still none of us have popped up. If she likes me she'll pop up, I think it's just a stubborn game to see who'll last longer lmao.
* - V For Vendetta. - Jan 18, 2017
3.5 billion girls in the world and you're stressing about one lmao