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Dilemma - HF.Psych - Jul 30, 2019
So, your ex who left you for another person turns up at your doorstep, crying and wanting to come inside to talk.
Do you..
A. Let her in and try to make things better
B. Tell her it's time to leave and shut the door on her
Just curious to what you guys would do.
RE: Dilemma - itcorp - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 03:43 PM)HF.Psych Wrote: So, your ex who left you for another person turns up at your doorstep, crying and wanting to come inside to talk.
Do you..
A. Let her in and try to make things better
B. Tell her it's time to leave and shut the door on her
Just curious to what you guys would do.
Most girls realize what she has lost,and in most cases they will not make the same mistake so I think that A is an option,there is nothing to lose of course if you can live with it and not to pass it on to her because men have a special policy on that.
RE: Dilemma - Barhkk - Jul 30, 2019
Let her in without having any kind of expectations, just as if you're helping a random stranger in need.
RE: Dilemma - SoulZeh - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 03:50 PM)Barhkk Wrote: Let her in without having any kind of expectations, just as if you're helping a random stranger in need.
Not entirely sure if you even read the thread as it's not some "stranger".
However this has actually happened to me before and I just left her there as she cheated, so I didn't really give a fugg.
RE: Dilemma - Barhkk - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 03:53 PM)SoulZeh Wrote: Not entirely sure if you even read the thread as it's not some "stranger".
However this has actually happened to me before and I just left her there as she cheated, so I didn't really give a fugg.
I proposed he viewed her as a stranger in need of help, to avoid old emotions resurfacing.
RE: Dilemma - Deany - Jul 30, 2019
Option B lol... I am not that desperate
RE: Dilemma - W3 S33 4LL - Jul 30, 2019
Well, I'd choose option A if I really loved that person. Yet It can be debatable. If she left for someone else then its her fault for losing someone better.
RE: Dilemma - MavenGradle - Jul 30, 2019
I couldn't care less. My option isn't even on the list which would be to never open the door in the first place.
RE: Dilemma - Takehito Morokuzu - Jul 30, 2019
Option A. Even if I didn't want to get back with her that doesn't mean we can't talk things though.
RE: Dilemma - itcorp - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 03:56 PM)Barhkk Wrote: I proposed he viewed her as a stranger in need of help, to avoid old emotions resurfacing.
We all play some macho shit at first,but the important fact is that you feel something for that person or not.And the important fact is that the woman who comes to your door after all she has done!She is ready for anything and probably loves you when she is ready to repay her pride for you!!!
RE: Dilemma - HF.Psych - Jul 30, 2019
Personally, my girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend, he got rid of her once he realised the story and now she's with someone else
I always wait for the door to go so we can start again. Realistically I'm my case it's denial, I'd like to say I'd just shut the door in her face, but I secretly care too much.
8 years was a long time to just forget someone.
RE: Dilemma - HF.Psych - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 04:31 PM)forbidden Wrote: If I was personally deciding and controlling your life, kind of like a video game, I would choose option B and try to hook up with another girl to make her super fugging jealous and pissed off.
Then just play it by ear and play your cards right and hey next thing you know you prolly got a loyal, crazy slut that will do anything to keep you attracted to her.
Go for it!! 😏
Edit: I should mention I am a friendless virgin, so don't take my advice too serious.
Lmao firendles virgin
RE: Dilemma - HF.Psych - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 04:54 PM)forbidden Wrote: It is not a laughing topic!! I am fugged bro no pussy truly drives you crazy.
Id give up anything to be in a relationship with someone smart and attractive that would never cheat or fugg around with your emotions and just live life and travel and not give a shittt about anyone else.
I have yet to find this person and I think the only way is to give my dna to a facility for testing and matching people based on dna.
You don't find love, love finds you. You'll get there eventually my dude.
RE: Dilemma - HF.Psych - Jul 30, 2019
(Jul 30, 2019 04:59 PM)forbidden Wrote: Love is never finding me boi. I know that for damn sure.
There is nothing wrong with being alone for your whole life till you perish. I have family. They will have family. Their kids will eventually have a family, etc.. but my gene pool will cease to exist and carry on and I am fine with that. I am not meant for this world, and I know it sounds crazy 🤣
I keep getting unmatched on [BRAND NAME REMOVED] it hurts.
RE: Dilemma - Bossk - Jul 30, 2019
im not that binary bro ok
(Jul 30, 2019 05:15 PM)forbidden Wrote: Well if that is the case then maybe don't break up lol
I got a friend that is not the most attractive and he found a girl on [BRAND NAME REMOVED] in prolly a week. What are you doing wrong loll
please remove from ignore