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Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - crixus - Jul 10, 2020
People try to scam you, the hotel attention was bad and so on things like this happen all the time. how do you react to it?
Do you criticize the people?
I find the best way is to turn your back to it and don't give it any energy.
like today someone try to sell me on LC 100$ with 40% fees and he lied that it's the international fees of Wastern union. w/e man.
So instead of writing him a bad review that he's crock like I normally do give it more energy, I just turned my back from it and focus on the good things and cancel the trade.
I wrote thank for cancel and keep my day head on positive.
Not trying to change the word approach.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - A + - Jul 10, 2020
I like that, you have to take them with a grain of salt. Gotta keep the peace.
RE: Reaction is the key: how you react to bad things? - Lyralei - Jul 10, 2020
I also ignore anything that wastes my energy nowadays, It's a stress free mindset, to be honest. I used to be a person who'd dive deep when someone gives me trouble, without thinking too much of the consequences and how it'd affect others, but now, I'd say I've become more observant, due to this change of mindset.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - reGame - Jul 10, 2020
depends
for example my dad peed on toilet board and I ignored it because it was gross. but in situations like thiss it will bite u in the butt because if you dont explain him (preferably not calmly cause he will then ignore it) <identity of any trouble maker here> then he will do it again
that said i ignored him when he did that and he again peed on toilet board today
lucky for me i always clean the board before shitting and I shit only once per 2 weeks
but yeah you certainly SHOULDNT ignore certain things
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Hackt00lz - Jul 10, 2020
(Jul 10, 2020 04:15 AM)crixus Wrote: People try to scam you, the hotel attention was bad and so on things like this happen all the time. how do you react to it?
Do you criticize the people?
I find the best way is to turn your back to it and don't give it any energy.
like today someone try to sell me on LC 100$ with 40% fees and he lied that it's the international fees of Wastern union. w/e man.
So instead of writing him a bad review that he's crock like I normally do give it more energy, I just turned my back from it and focus on the good things and cancel the trade.
I wrote thank for cancel and keep my day head on positive.
Not trying to change the word approach.
My reaction depends on how bad the situation is, atimes i might react in a very harsh way, and atimes, i might not react atall
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Ѕystem - Jul 10, 2020
Depends on what type of @#$% has hit the fan and sprayed all over me because at this point in my life I know how to generally avoid said fan. I usually will deal with the negative result in a professional and timely manner in attempts to resolve the issue. So far, I generally get a good and happy ending out of it.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Bacardi Cola Lime - Jul 10, 2020
I try to not panic of course if things go bad and reevaluate the situation. If it's so serious that seeks action then I'll take it no matter what to make things right. If it's not worth my time after all, I'll just ignore it.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - L0RE - Jul 10, 2020
Depends, I’m quite aggressive so I would end up breaking something
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Artisan - Jul 10, 2020
You have the best approach. Getting angry means that the anger would also take time to go away and would affect your performance. So by being cool youre actually saving time and money too, not to mention the scammer gets looked at in a more negative light.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Vibe - Jul 10, 2020
I try not to over react to stuff and just chalk it up, but some times I need to say something before I’m done with it
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - ๖ۣۜDødgygeez - Jul 12, 2020
I try my best not to let my emotions have the better of me. Sometimes this is for the best and sometimes it is not. I should react more in certain situations and others I should react less. I struggle to find the balance but I find that as long as I'm happy, then I have nothing to worry about. But I feel like I should react sometimes because I know I can/should and because of how others will judge me.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - MightyOne - Jul 12, 2020
I usually avoid the drama, and just pass it off. i wont let anyone trick me or scam me if i notice it and i wont flip on him either though.. ill just let it go.
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Limitado - Jul 12, 2020
I dont handle bad things really well. I need to improve myself
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - SourceCode101 - Jul 12, 2020
(Jul 10, 2020 04:15 AM)crixus Wrote: People try to scam you, the hotel attention was bad and so on things like this happen all the time. how do you react to it?
Do you criticize the people?
I find the best way is to turn your back to it and don't give it any energy.
like today someone try to sell me on LC 100$ with 40% fees and he lied that it's the international fees of Wastern union. w/e man.
So instead of writing him a bad review that he's crock like I normally do give it more energy, I just turned my back from it and focus on the good things and cancel the trade.
I wrote thank for cancel and keep my day head on positive.
Not trying to change the word approach.
When something bad happen to me , im trying to stay calm with playing chess and relax in my bed , or even if i can go to fish i will
RE: Reaction is the key: how do you react to bad things? - Golden Complex - Jul 12, 2020
I remember that the way somebody speaks or acts toward me speaks more about them as a person than it does I. Just the other night, I was outside of a restaurant and a drunk guy walked up, badmouthed us, burped and blew it toward our face before walking into the restaurant. My friends were furious, but really I just saw no reason to be. Somebody who acts this way toward another human being is an object of my pity, not anger. Happy people don't do that.
I try to react with respect, mindfulness, and kindness in every situation. I try to let things go if they're bothering me. Being angry is like drinking poison expecting the other person to die.