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What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Makaveli The Don - Oct 1, 2021
I usually take a few days, grab a few opinions of people that I trust and then I isolate myself and think about all the possible outcomes, the positives/negatives and then I go with what feels right at the time.
What about you guys? Do you meditate? Do you seek professional help? Do you just gamble and hope it's the right decision?
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - siddy357 - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:38 PM)Makaveli The Don Wrote: I usually take a few days, grab a few opinions of people that I trust and then I isolate myself and think about all the possible outcomes, the positives/negatives and then I go with what feels right at the time.
What about you guys? Do you mediate? Do you seek professional help? Do you just gamble and hope it's the right decision?
ask someone you trust or and elderly who might have the experience of how to handle the situation.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Yanix - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:38 PM)Makaveli The Don Wrote: I usually take a few days, grab a few opinions of people that I trust and then I isolate myself and think about all the possible outcomes, the positives/negatives and then I go with what feels right at the time.
What about you guys? Do you mediate? Do you seek professional help? Do you just gamble and hope it's the right decision?
First thing to do is to take a little silence and having some devotion to pray a lot and ask for wisdom for whatever decision to come up.
Sometimes I also get along with some trusted people and members of the family for some great ideas and advices.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - siddy357 - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:44 PM)Yanix Wrote: First thing to do is to take a little silence and having some devotion to pray a lot and ask for wisdom for whatever decision to come up.
Sometimes I also get along with some trusted people and members of the family for some great ideas and advices.
not a bad idea to keep one self calm before a decision.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Makaveli The Don - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:40 PM)siddy357 Wrote: ask someone you trust or and elderly who might have the experience of how to handle the situation.
Yes, usually someone you trust and has more experience on the matter provide good insight on how to deal with a certain situation. But at the end, you need to make the decision and you need to live with the outcome. So you gotta make sure you can live with the consequences.
(Oct 1, 2021 07:44 PM)Yanix Wrote: First thing to do is to take a little silence and having some devotion to pray a lot and ask for wisdom for whatever decision to come up.
Sometimes I also get along with some trusted people and members of the family for some great ideas and advices.
Prayers or meditation can be a good mind cleanser so you can find your inner peace before making a decision.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Pochino - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:38 PM)Makaveli The Don Wrote: I usually take a few days, grab a few opinions of people that I trust and then I isolate myself and think about all the possible outcomes, the positives/negatives and then I go with what feels right at the time.
What about you guys? Do you meditate? Do you seek professional help? Do you just gamble and hope it's the right decision?
I always do my research and do not ask other people - it is not important for any one what you are doing - except for your family - also it is your life and your decision - mostly I am right and that is because I do it without thinking a lot
Always think that if it is 0,00005% positive for your life you already won
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Yanix - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 08:00 PM)siddy357 Wrote: not a bad idea to keep one self calm before a decision.
I am always used to this kind of set up just to lighten up everything.
I want silence for it gives me more time to think and it clears my mind and prayers gives me more wisdom for a right decision.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Cap - Oct 1, 2021
When I'm pondering a decision, I think of both pros and cons to the situation. I research and seek other opinions in a general context to see what others think. I also talk to my wife so I can make sure we are on the same page.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Sky - Oct 1, 2021
I usually use my brain and try to make a logical decision.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - eviking - Oct 1, 2021
I usually stroke my beard, smoke a cig & try to weigh the pros n cons and try to make an educated decision.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - siddy357 - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 08:14 PM)Yanix Wrote: I am always used to this kind of set up just to lighten up everything.
I want silence for it gives me more time to think and it clears my mind and prayers gives me more wisdom for a right decision.
but need some inputs to sort out the decisions at times
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Blazin - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 07:38 PM)Makaveli The Don Wrote: I usually take a few days, grab a few opinions of people that I trust and then I isolate myself and think about all the possible outcomes, the positives/negatives and then I go with what feels right at the time.
What about you guys? Do you meditate? Do you seek professional help? Do you just gamble and hope it's the right decision?
I follow my heart mostly, take my time try not to rush. Outweigh everything.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - shakur123 - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 08:15 PM)Cap Wrote: When I'm pondering a decision, I think of both pros and cons to the situation. I research and seek other opinions in a general context to see what others think. I also talk to my wife so I can make sure we are on the same page.
Same here, i think its very important to talk with other people so you can know other input about your decision
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - Cap - Oct 1, 2021
(Oct 1, 2021 09:26 PM)shakur123 Wrote: Same here, i think its very important to talk with other people so you can know other input about your decision
Hands down one of the best things you can do.
RE: What do you normally do when you are pondering a difficult decision? - *** - Oct 1, 2021
I go for a drive , Something about driving lets me have a clear perspective