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Project Venus - 3 guys you DON'T want to be - King Cin - Sep 20, 2015
3 guys you DON'T want to be
Introduction
In this thread I'll be introducing you to several types of guys you don't want to be. You should ALWAYS avoid being these guys because it really won't get you far. Too many people make the same mistakes and find the right answers too late. Hopefully this will be useful to you.
The Interviewer
The Interviewer wants to show interest, but fails to realize that he's doing something wrong. The conversation isn't really moving along, it's just one party asking the other party questions the whole time. The problem with this is that you'll be out of questions in no time, and that it won't create attraction if all you do is ask questions.
An example of The Interviewer will be shown below.
Quote:Matt: Hey Sara, how are you?
Sara: I'm fine, thanks.
Matt: Ok, what're you up to today?
Sara: Nothing much, just watching Netflix
Matt: Nice. Which movie?
What should be done:
Quote:Matt: Hey Sara, how are you?
Sara: I'm fine, thanks.
Matt: Alright, nice. I'm fine as well. What you up to?
Sara: Nothing much, just watching Netflix
Matt: Coincidence, I'm watching Prison Break's last season right now. So exciting. How about you?
Sara: You haven't finished Prison Break yet?! How is that even possible? (I'm watching Gossip Girl btw)
The Complimenter
The Complimenter believes that women love compliments, and because it makes them happy he should hand more compliments than the hugs Pacquiao gave Maywheather. While yes, compliments are a good thing that increase attraction, they should be used at the right moment and more importantly, should be used sparingly. This girl isn't just being talked to by you. She probably has those horny emojis all over her Instagram feed already feeding her ego. An example of The Complimenter will be shown below.
Quote:Eric: I forgot to mention I think you're absolutely beautiful Britney.
Britney: Thanks
Eric: Like.. Wow.. How can someone be so pretty?
Britney: idk
Eric: Haha.. Like your smile by the way, very nice!
How compliments should be used:
Quote:*Britney smiles*
Eric: That smile looks nice on you, you should do it more often :)
The Asshole
The Asshole believes that he should create as much attraction as possible, and that the best way to do this is general macho behavior. He couldn't be less correct regarding the latter. While it's good not to be too nice of a guy, it's bad to be too much of an asshole as well. An example will be given down below.
Quote:Jane: So what you up to?
Bob: Well you know, nothing much. Just came back from the gym. Some guy was squatting 240lbs so I upped him by doing 260. Should've seen the look on his face.
Jane: Oh, well ok.
Bob: Why are you giving such short answers? It's a privilege to talk with someone like me you know.
* - Ienaos - Sep 20, 2015
Another informative thread, good job.
* - King Cin - Sep 21, 2015
(Sep 20, 2015 11:57 PM)Ren Wrote: Another informative thread, good job.
Thanks for the compliment Ren.
* - ๒lคςк ςคt - Sep 22, 2015
The Social Engineer
Quote:Spy : Hi man
neimad : hey guy how can i help you ?
Spy : nothing just want to talk
neimad : oh ok man ;)
Spy : how are you doing ?
neimad : im fine wbu ?
Spy : im fine too,you heard this dude lost his gf ?
neimad : lol haha
Spy : mind yea send me all your sources ?
neimad : sure ;)
* - King Cin - Sep 22, 2015
(Sep 22, 2015 06:16 AM)๒lคςк ςคt Wrote: The Social Engineer
I don't think anyone actually does that. 😏
* - ๒lคςк ςคt - Sep 22, 2015
(Sep 22, 2015 12:34 PM)Gigi Hadid Wrote: I don't think anyone actually does that. 😏
Send the sources or se people?
Both is true and it makes fun but you are still an asshole if you do it haha
* - Judecca - Sep 22, 2015
(Sep 20, 2015 11:57 PM)Ren Wrote: Another informative thread, good job.
YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!! (Click to View)
* - TomHimself - Sep 22, 2015
Ideally, you should give out compliments only in the comfort phase, once the girl is attracted and you're rewarding her for behavior / personality.
You should compliment a girl on her looks only if you're going direct (assuming you're intermediate/advanced) or if she's obviously attracted to you.
* - King Cin - Sep 27, 2015
Are you one of these guys?
Might make a continuation of this thread soon.
* - An0nym0u555 - Jun 29, 2016
"This girl isn't just being talked to by you. She probably has those horny emojis all over her Instagram feed already feeding her ego."
I lol'd so hard about this one. But you are completely right.
* - Forsen - Jun 29, 2016
(Jun 29, 2016 06:04 AM)An0nym0u555 Wrote: "This girl isn't just being talked to by you. She probably has those horny emojis all over her Instagram feed already feeding her ego."
I lol'd so hard about this one. But you are completely right.
You are bumping a 2015 thread..