3 guys you DON'T want to be
Introduction
In this thread I'll be introducing you to several types of guys you don't want to be. You should ALWAYS avoid being these guys because it really won't get you far. Too many people make the same mistakes and find the right answers too late. Hopefully this will be useful to you.
The Interviewer
The Interviewer wants to show interest, but fails to realize that he's doing something wrong. The conversation isn't really moving along, it's just one party asking the other party questions the whole time. The problem with this is that you'll be out of questions in no time, and that it won't create attraction if all you do is ask questions.
An example of The Interviewer will be shown below.
What should be done:
The Complimenter
The Complimenter believes that women love compliments, and because it makes them happy he should hand more compliments than the hugs Pacquiao gave Maywheather. While yes, compliments are a good thing that increase attraction, they should be used at the right moment and more importantly, should be used sparingly. This girl isn't just being talked to by you. She probably has those horny emojis all over her Instagram feed already feeding her ego. An example of The Complimenter will be shown below.
How compliments should be used:
The Asshole
The Asshole believes that he should create as much attraction as possible, and that the best way to do this is general macho behavior. He couldn't be less correct regarding the latter. While it's good not to be too nice of a guy, it's bad to be too much of an asshole as well. An example will be given down below.
Introduction
In this thread I'll be introducing you to several types of guys you don't want to be. You should ALWAYS avoid being these guys because it really won't get you far. Too many people make the same mistakes and find the right answers too late. Hopefully this will be useful to you.
The Interviewer
The Interviewer wants to show interest, but fails to realize that he's doing something wrong. The conversation isn't really moving along, it's just one party asking the other party questions the whole time. The problem with this is that you'll be out of questions in no time, and that it won't create attraction if all you do is ask questions.
An example of The Interviewer will be shown below.
Quote:Matt: Hey Sara, how are you?
Sara: I'm fine, thanks.
Matt: Ok, what're you up to today?
Sara: Nothing much, just watching Netflix
Matt: Nice. Which movie?
What should be done:
Quote:Matt: Hey Sara, how are you?
Sara: I'm fine, thanks.
Matt: Alright, nice. I'm fine as well. What you up to?
Sara: Nothing much, just watching Netflix
Matt: Coincidence, I'm watching Prison Break's last season right now. So exciting. How about you?
Sara: You haven't finished Prison Break yet?! How is that even possible? (I'm watching Gossip Girl btw)
The Complimenter
The Complimenter believes that women love compliments, and because it makes them happy he should hand more compliments than the hugs Pacquiao gave Maywheather. While yes, compliments are a good thing that increase attraction, they should be used at the right moment and more importantly, should be used sparingly. This girl isn't just being talked to by you. She probably has those horny emojis all over her Instagram feed already feeding her ego. An example of The Complimenter will be shown below.
Quote:Eric: I forgot to mention I think you're absolutely beautiful Britney.
Britney: Thanks
Eric: Like.. Wow.. How can someone be so pretty?
Britney: idk
Eric: Haha.. Like your smile by the way, very nice!
How compliments should be used:
Quote:*Britney smiles*
Eric: That smile looks nice on you, you should do it more often :)
The Asshole
The Asshole believes that he should create as much attraction as possible, and that the best way to do this is general macho behavior. He couldn't be less correct regarding the latter. While it's good not to be too nice of a guy, it's bad to be too much of an asshole as well. An example will be given down below.
Quote:Jane: So what you up to?
Bob: Well you know, nothing much. Just came back from the gym. Some guy was squatting 240lbs so I upped him by doing 260. Should've seen the look on his face.
Jane: Oh, well ok.
Bob: Why are you giving such short answers? It's a privilege to talk with someone like me you know.
