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The right girl? [Innuendo] - Godlypkz - Nov 20, 2016
I don't have a problem with girls to have fun with, if you get what I mean. But I have another problem - once I get a girl I've been trying to get, I get BORED and just stop talking to them. There's girl that are really nice that I try to avoid because I can see that they are trying to flirt or whatever but I've passed the stage of wanting that and I just feel disgusted and cringed by them.
I'm 17 and sex and shit like that ain't a problem finding but I want a girlfriend, because I've been so caught up in just fucking around with girls and have never actually had a relationship (someone I call girlfriend and actually have feelings for). Maybe because I am so picky? I don't know. I feel like I need the perfect girl that is basically the girl version of me, but with more loyalty, lol.
What should I do, if I can do something?
Has anyone else experienced/is experiencing this? If so what was the outcome etc.
Thanks for reading. This is one main reason I love hackforums because I feel like I can talk about shit I can't reveal to people around me, lol.
Btw reason I posted here is because its not letting me post on Innuendo, idk why
* - Haunted Figure - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 12:36 PM)Godlypkz Wrote: I don't have a problem with girls to have fun with, if you get what I mean. But I have another problem - once I get a girl I've been trying to get, I get BORED and just stop talking to them. There's girl that are really nice that I try to avoid because I can see that they are trying to flirt or whatever but I've passed the stage of wanting that and I just feel disgusted and cringed by them.
I'm 17 and sex and shit like that ain't a problem finding but I want a girlfriend, because I've been so caught up in just fucking around with girls and have never actually had a relationship (someone I call girlfriend and actually have feelings for). Maybe because I am so picky? I don't know. I feel like I need the perfect girl that is basically the girl version of me, but with more loyalty, lol.
What should I do, if I can do something?
Has anyone else experienced/is experiencing this? If so what was the outcome etc.
Thanks for reading. This is one main reason I love hackforums because I feel like I can talk about shit I can't reveal to people around me, lol.
Btw reason I posted here is because its not letting me post on Innuendo, idk why
I was always told that love finds you not the other way around. Time will tell friend. Plus you're only 17 and I know that's hard to deal with but it's true. Most girls your age probably aren't even looking for something to last.
* - ChaoticForce - Nov 20, 2016
So that will be 1 girlfriend + Shipping
Total = wtf.99
* - The Equalizers - Nov 20, 2016
Just keep doing what u do.One day right one will come.Just change place and way how you get the ones at moment soo ul find some nice.
* - ʖok3r - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 01:26 PM)ChaoticForce Wrote: So that will be 1 girlfriend + Shipping
Total = wtf.99
Can it be expedited please? I don't want to go limp 🤣
* - FileBoss - Nov 20, 2016
I fucked your sisters ass. She has perfect tits
* - Mom - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 01:26 PM)ChaoticForce Wrote: So that will be 1 girlfriend + Shipping
Total = wtf.99
🤣 that's funny as fuck, never seen that used before lmfao.
* - Steve - Nov 20, 2016
I'm actually in a very similar position as you. I'm sick of hooking up with no feelings. I think I've been way to picky as well, but something I realized is that you can't tell if a girl is perfect for you without getting to know her. When you date someone you build memories and become very close to her. It's only after that when you will know.
You need to just take a chance and start dating someone. I actually met a girl at work that I'm interested in. We'll see where this goes.
* - ʖok3r - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 05:55 PM)Steve Wrote: I'm actually in a very similar position as you. I'm sick of hooking up with no feelings. I think I've been way to picky as well, but something I realized is that you can't tell if a girl is perfect for you without getting to know her. When you date someone you build memories and become very close to her. It's only after that when you will know.
You need to just take a chance and start dating someone. I actually met a girl at work that I'm interested in. We'll see where this goes.
Actually, I can relate to this a lot. One night stands and then feeling empty is depressing af.
* - MrPip - Nov 20, 2016
Mind -> Heart -> Stomach -> Vagina; a woman should be pleased in that order. Same for you! Learn to get to know people instead of getting to know the vagina only. If you have a females heart and mind (especially) I don't think you should be worried about loyalty. Most importantly get a girl that is head over heels for you but not week minded. Good Luck OP!
* - Steve - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 05:58 PM)SexyGoat Wrote: Actually, I can relate to this a lot. One night stands and then feeling empty is depressing af.
Agreed. I've never had a girlfriend but I do want one now. I've always been picky but screw it you just gotta take a chance.
* - ʖok3r - Nov 20, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 06:03 PM)Steve Wrote: Agreed. I've never had a girlfriend but I do want one now. I've always been picky but screw it you just gotta take a chance.
Me too. I used to say who needs a real relationship and scoff at people who actually got into long term relationships, but now i'm beginning to feel like there is something to it.
It takes more hard work, but I think it pays off way more than a one night or short term at the end of the day.
* - K l a u s - Nov 20, 2016
Feels like the desperation to have a relationship is just a reflection of your poor qualities. So why would a low quality person attract anything else but others of the same quality?
* - Godlypkz - Nov 21, 2016
(Nov 20, 2016 06:05 PM)Klaus m Wrote: Feels like the desperation to have a relationship is just a reflection of your poor qualities. So why would a low quality person attract anything else but others of the same quality?
Lol, I don't think you understand things very well. If I was desperate to get into a relationship I would be dating the slags I fuck. You don't know me so you can't state I have poor qualities, you can only infer.
(Nov 20, 2016 06:02 PM)MrPip Wrote: Mind -> Heart -> Stomach -> Vagina; a woman should be pleased in that order. Same for you! Learn to get to know people instead of getting to know the vagina only. If you have a females heart and mind (especially) I don't think you should be worried about loyalty. Most importantly get a girl that is head over heels for you but not week minded. Good Luck OP!
I understand what you mean, but the way I think of it is this: If a girl is that easy to get into bed, there's no way she's the right girl for me lol.
Thanks for all replies. It seems I'm on and off in these feelings, there's times where I feel depressed because I want a relationship then there's times I just want to sleep with a girl. I guess it fits into one. I'd rather a girlfriend that can be my friend then just a toy, if you get what I mean.