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New girlfriend, need a little advice. - Scooby Snacks - Jun 11, 2017
Well, I'm only young (In my teens), just enjoying my life now being free from School, I would just like to speak of my new relationship.
Firstly, I have been in 2 some-what serious relationships (which i've taken seriously), these have all both been between a year, the first relationship I was with, I ended because shit just got too much for me, I was getting trapped into that shit, she started hanging around with her "bestfriend" who she apparently knew for 10 years, which I had literally just heard about 7 months into the relationship, but it's whatever (that's why I left her, trust no hoes)
The second relationship, i've had quite easy, I had everything handed to me, there was no chase and there was no emotion from myself towards this easy reaction, I've always enjoyed myself actually chasing.
but now it seem's that I have a third girl on the way, an she's the type of girl you would get with when you're too young, just to figure that she's the one, and that she's everything that anyone would ask for, an she's basically head over heels for you, but for me to mention, that in the past relationships, i've always had sex come easy, I mean, they've been good lookers too, an i'm sure you boys would agree if I had the bollocks to post pictures here, but literally, with the first relationship, I had intercourse 3 days in within knowing her and properly wanting to be around her, which is stupid early, but you'll just have to wait to hear about the next relationship, the second relationship which lasted only 1 month, I fucked her on the first day of actually even knowing her, like I fell into the relationship without even asking her to be mine, we ended up basically being a sex based relationship, which really, she enjoyed it more than what I did, an still do. I lost my virginity at the age of 15, so it was the prime age for watching porn, only for me to figure that sex is nothing like what it looks like on the internet, but for whatever it is, I now have a new girl, an she's literally one of the popular girls, you know the bitchy girls which all the young bucks get, but you wish you could smash 100% and wonder how fucking lucky the boyfriend got, I am in the situation where, she's literally around my finger, i'm nothing special, I have a lot going for me, but out of all the other lads which she could of gone to, I have been the one to take this upon myself, but I just feel no emotions towards any relationships at all, and it digs at me, I want to try and build these emotions, because she's lovely, she's a diamond and a keeper, I tell you that, she's fine as hell bro, I just need to get it sorted, she's the one you would take home to mom, I already done that for real, I just need to know how to build my feelings, cus I don't want it to end like the last two where everything just get's handed to me, sex just comes easy.
"Since sex got easier to get, love's gotten harder to find."
* - Mr. Robot - Jun 11, 2017
I wasn't going to read this due to its paragraphing but decided you needed help and weren't going to get to the point till the last 2 sentences.
Anyhow, we don't know your age but you say you are in your teens - you also say you lost your virginity at 15. That to me says you have only been having sex/serious relationships for a maximum of 4 years.
Sure it's not impossible for you to find your future wife now, marry one day and settle down but i'm telling ya - it aint gunna end well. Doesn't matter how much you love each other - one of yall will cheat or have the urge to one day and it'll fuck it all up.
Could be the nicest little catholic bitch and she'll cheat or have the urge to from an early relationship. Setting her life up at under 19? No way. She's got plenty of life to live and she'll blame you for holding her back.
Just enjoy life, learn to love at your own pace.
* - Tʀᴀᴜᴍᴀ - Jun 11, 2017
(Jun 11, 2017 03:27 AM)Mr. Robot Wrote: Just enjoy life, learn to love at your own pace.
I don't know why this hit me so hard..
* - Scooby Snacks - Jun 11, 2017
(Jun 11, 2017 03:27 AM)Mr. Robot Wrote: I wasn't going to read this due to its paragraphing but decided you needed help and weren't going to get to the point till the last 2 sentences.
Anyhow, we don't know your age but you say you are in your teens - you also say you lost your virginity at 15. That to me says you have only been having sex/serious relationships for a maximum of 4 years.
Sure it's not impossible for you to find your future wife now, marry one day and settle down but i'm telling ya - it aint gunna end well. Doesn't matter how much you love each other - one of yall will cheat or have the urge to one day and it'll fuck it all up.
Could be the nicest little catholic bitch and she'll cheat or have the urge to from an early relationship. Setting her life up at under 19? No way. She's got plenty of life to live and she'll blame you for holding her back.
Just enjoy life, learn to love at your own pace.
I did wonder about the paragraphing, it was more of a large urge to just splash my words onto the thread, I apologize. I understand for which it's all so accurate.
* - th3c0rrupt3d0n3 - Jun 11, 2017
Asking HF teenagers for social advice.
That's not a great plan.