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Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Billeh - Jan 18, 2020
Excuse this rant of mine but this shit has literally been killing me, especially lately. So a few months ago I left my girlfriend because she wasn’t putting effort towards anything, for example; I was the only one working a full-time job and still had to come home to cook & clean nearly everyday. On top of a lot of other stuff, I’ve decided to leave, I felt like I just couldn’t do it anymore, I was already feeling depressed for a while & it kept getting worse.
After we break up things just go downhill, I feel totally disrespected as a father. I do everything I can for my son, I was taking him 4/5 days of the week, spending 8+ hours with him and all that, now of course I don’t have a problem with that, I love my son. Where is the compromise though? Why do I have him 90% of the time while she’s out bopping & thotting?
She kept accusing me of not doing shit (Because I wasn’t giving her money like that but I lost my job so I was doing whatever I could). I still provided for my son as much as possible but I guess nothing is ever enough for her.
She started seeing someone else which I personally don’t give a hell who she dates, but she wouldn’t answer my calls or texts about my son while she was with her new man & she was bringing her new man around my son already which I ain’t appreciate at all.
So basically I got pissed & spazzed out & threatened her boyfriend, father & brother and she called the cops saying I threatened her.
I was arrested, unable to see my son for almost 2 months because she took out an order of protection & now I only get him twice a week for 6 hours which sucks soooo much. It’s really unfair how the system works like that. She also informed me she wants full custody which had me going crazy because I’m a good father to my son & I should not lose my parental rights or have a court tell me when I can & cannot see my son.
I plan on going for custody but I know it’s going to be a hell of a ride, this really sucks.
TL;DR: Don’t have kids with birds.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Grizzly - Jan 18, 2020
OMG dude, when people say that shit... it annoys the fook out of me.
And yeah, its pretty ghetto.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Trip - Jan 18, 2020
The system always favors the momma.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Billeh - Jan 18, 2020
(Jan 18, 2020 08:55 PM)Trip Wrote: The system always favors the momma.
It really blows because a lot or these mothers are only pissed because the father doesn’t want to be with THEM anymore.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Ultras - Jan 18, 2020
Having children in the west means you're held hostage by the mother for 18 years if your relationship comes to an end. And these women are so self-absorbed that they can't see they are hurting their child as much as the father.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Billeh - Jan 18, 2020
(Jan 18, 2020 08:59 PM)Ultras Wrote: Having children in the west means you're held hostage by the mother for 18 years if your relationship comes to an end. And these women are so self-absorbed that they can't see they are hurting their child as much as the father.
She’ll realize it when my son is older & has resentment towards her for what she did. So in the end I’m sure everything will turn out better for me & my sons relationship but it just sucks this is the road it has to go.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Vеrt - Jan 18, 2020
Messed up world man. Hopefully everything goes well for you. But yeah I never wanted a baby momma and thankful never got one
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Silent Uprising - Jan 18, 2020
It's gonna cost you a ton on lawyers. Such a shitty thing to go through though...you def have the right to see your child
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Billeh - Jan 18, 2020
(Jan 18, 2020 09:31 PM)-Scrub Wrote: Did she have post pardon
Depression ? That is a huge thing how old Is your son ? Sometimes having a child puts a giant strain on the relationship . You tough it out and make things work for the kid to not grow up in a broken home . Kids didn’t ask to be here we put them here . They shouldn’t have to suffer for mistakes we make , included in failed non trying relationships .
She started acting a fool when she was around 2-3 months pregnant, so I wouldn’t say it’s post pardon depression. My son is about to be three years old in two months. I’ve done everything possible, I put up with a lot of shit, expressed myself multiple times & tried everything I could to make it work. Sometimes a ‘broken home’ is a lot better than a toxic home because regardless I’m always going to be there for my son. If you really knew everything, you wouldn’t just say to “tough it out” because I toughed it out as long as I could. You can only do so much.
(Jan 18, 2020 09:27 PM)Silent Uprising Wrote: It's gonna cost you a ton on lawyers. Such a shitty thing to go through though...you def have the right to see your child
I know, that’s going to be the hardest part is getting good lawyers but I’ll figure out something because I firmly believe my son will be better off living with me.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - JustDevyThing - Jan 18, 2020
Did you do parental test? Kid may not be your
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Billeh - Jan 19, 2020
(Jan 18, 2020 11:54 PM)JustDevyThing Wrote: Did you do parental test? Kid may not be your
Definitely mine, no question bout it.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Slim - Jan 19, 2020
I don’t think this has ever been called into question. Of course it’s ghetto as fuck
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Nate - Jan 19, 2020
Not really, people make mistakes dude.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - Linux X - Jan 19, 2020
(Jan 18, 2020 08:55 PM)Trip Wrote: The system always favors the momma.
Yeah, that's why the system is broken, even the mom is trash she will get it.
RE: Having a Baby Momma is Ghetto - MeganCult - Jan 19, 2020
Sorry to hear that's happened to you. Nothing worse than using an innocent child as a weapon.