[Billeh]

Excuse this rant of mine but this shit has literally been killing me, especially lately. So a few months ago I left my girlfriend because she wasn’t putting effort towards anything, for example; I was the only one working a full-time job and still had to come home to cook & clean nearly everyday. On top of a lot of other stuff, I’ve decided to leave, I felt like I just couldn’t do it anymore, I was already feeling depressed for a while & it kept getting worse.

After we break up things just go downhill, I feel totally disrespected as a father. I do everything I can for my son, I was taking him 4/5 days of the week, spending 8+ hours with him and all that, now of course I don’t have a problem with that, I love my son. Where is the compromise though? Why do I have him 90% of the time while she’s out bopping & thotting?

She kept accusing me of not doing shit (Because I wasn’t giving her money like that but I lost my job so I was doing whatever I could). I still provided for my son as much as possible but I guess nothing is ever enough for her.

She started seeing someone else which I personally don’t give a hell who she dates, but she wouldn’t answer my calls or texts about my son while she was with her new man & she was bringing her new man around my son already which I ain’t appreciate at all.

So basically I got pissed & spazzed out & threatened her boyfriend, father & brother and she called the cops saying I threatened her.

I was arrested, unable to see my son for almost 2 months because she took out an order of protection & now I only get him twice a week for 6 hours which sucks soooo much. It’s really unfair how the system works like that. She also informed me she wants full custody which had me going crazy because I’m a good father to my son & I should not lose my parental rights or have a court tell me when I can & cannot see my son.

I plan on going for custody but I know it’s going to be a hell of a ride, this really sucks.

TL;DR: Don’t have kids with birds.

[Grizzly]

OMG dude, when people say that shit... it annoys the fook out of me.

And yeah, its pretty ghetto.

[Trip]

The system always favors the momma.

[Billeh]

The system always favors the momma.

It really blows because a lot or these mothers are only pissed because the father doesn’t want to be with THEM anymore.

[Ultras]

Having children in the west means you're held hostage by the mother for 18 years if your relationship comes to an end. And these women are so self-absorbed that they can't see they are hurting their child as much as the father.

[Billeh]

Having children in the west means you're held hostage by the mother for 18 years if your relationship comes to an end. And these women are so self-absorbed that they can't see they are hurting their child as much as the father.

She’ll realize it when my son is older & has resentment towards her for what she did. So in the end I’m sure everything will turn out better for me & my sons relationship but it just sucks this is the road it has to go.

[Vеrt]

Messed up world man. Hopefully everything goes well for you. But yeah I never wanted a baby momma and thankful never got one

[Silent Uprising]

It's gonna cost you a ton on lawyers. Such a shitty thing to go through though...you def have the right to see your child

[Billeh]

Did she have post pardon
Depression ? That is a huge thing how old Is your son ? Sometimes having a child puts a giant strain on the relationship . You tough it out and make things work for the kid to not grow up in a broken home . Kids didn’t ask to be here we put them here . They shouldn’t have to suffer for mistakes we make , included in failed non trying relationships .

She started acting a fool when she was around 2-3 months pregnant, so I wouldn’t say it’s post pardon depression. My son is about to be three years old in two months. I’ve done everything possible, I put up with a lot of shit, expressed myself multiple times & tried everything I could to make it work. Sometimes a ‘broken home’ is a lot better than a toxic home because regardless I’m always going to be there for my son. If you really knew everything, you wouldn’t just say to “tough it out” because I toughed it out as long as I could. You can only do so much.

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It's gonna cost you a ton on lawyers. Such a shitty thing to go through though...you def have the right to see your child

I know, that’s going to be the hardest part is getting good lawyers but I’ll figure out something because I firmly believe my son will be better off living with me.

[JustDevyThing]

Did you do parental test? Kid may not be your

[Billeh]

Did you do parental test? Kid may not be your

Definitely mine, no question bout it.

[Slim]

I don’t think this has ever been called into question. Of course it’s ghetto as fuck

[Nate]

Not really, people make mistakes dude.

[Linux X]

The system always favors the momma.

Yeah, that's why the system is broken, even the mom is trash she will get it.

[MeganCult]

Sorry to hear that's happened to you. Nothing worse than using an innocent child as a weapon.