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Officially moving out of my parents house - iiFinance - Mar 8, 2023
April 1st, the day where I leave this home.
I'm 25. I've been making very good income for the last 2+ years after graduating college but I still lived at home mostly to help my Mom finances out and to save money. Also I'm middle eastern, and in our culture it's very normal for us to live with our parents well into our 20's.
But due to declining relationship between my Dad/Mom as well as my autistic brother who's temper tantrums/emotional outbursts have only become worse as we've gotten older I can no longer stand this house.
I haven't been exactly living at home for the last few years truthfully. I've been at my girlfriends place/traveling for more than half the year. So I'm barely home as is. Due to saving so much money I traveled throughout most the US which has been dope.
I'm hoping for a better improvement of my relationship with my parents and it being better for my overall mental health.
For those who live no longer with your parents. how old were you and how did it improve your relationship?
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Nostre - Mar 8, 2023
Surprisingly the relationship with your parents and brother will get better since they won't have access to you every day. Good luck with everything and make sure you keep in contact and see them at least once a week.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Toffee - Mar 8, 2023
Good luck with moving out, I have lived alone from the age of 18 and all I can say is, you will enjoy your freedom!
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Sky - Mar 8, 2023
I got my first job when I was 16 and moved out when I was 17. By the time I was 25 I had my own car, my own place and a kid.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Cap - Mar 8, 2023
It’s a huge step and congratulations. It’s a great feeling when you’re on you’re own. It’s different but it’s typically for the better. As Genuine said, it may make your relationship stronger.
It may be scary at first, but in the end it’s for the better.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Eran - Mar 8, 2023
It will change your life in ways you don't even realize yet, speaking for experience as this happened to me just a few months ago.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - XiNDiR - Mar 8, 2023
I move out to move to Los Angeles at the age of 18 to be a video game tester. I was on my own for the first 3 years there. That was the best time of my life. Thn I decided to have my mom and brother to move out to LA with me... Big mistake.... Everything went down hill from there...
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - XiNDiR - Mar 8, 2023
(Mar 8, 2023 05:54 PM)Dyne Wrote: Will you listen to yourself, man?
This is a real profession?
Yup, I was a QA Game Tester until I went to prison when I was 32. I worked AT Activision, Neversoft, and 2K Games, and some smaller game studios. I tested Tony Hawk, Guitar Hero, CoD... Tons of games. Money sucked, but I loved my job!
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Tando - Mar 8, 2023
Good luck it's a big step, be responsible.
Moved out at 25, it was strange at first but it gets better. The relationship does get better, less getting on each others' nerves.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Truth - Mar 8, 2023
the difference between a boy and a man is the level of dependencies, not age.
Moving out of parents home is one level up, mistakes many make after that is dependent on school or job.
When I moved out of my parents home, lots of clear thinking happened which sorta improved my relationship imo
Best Wishes
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - DashPHP - Mar 9, 2023
I too live with my parents for the same reason you did. I’m still building my cash so I have no plans of moving out.
I have built a great relationship with my parents. It was not like this 10 years ago haha
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - diablospartan - Mar 9, 2023
Good luck and congratulation ,some people have 40 years and they still depend on parents
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Prince™ - Mar 10, 2023
(Mar 8, 2023 12:54 PM)Sky Wrote: I got my first job when I was 16 and moved out when I was 17. By the time I was 25 I had my own car, my own place and a kid.
Damn, speaking about getting out of comfort zone and growing in personal/career life this man is a prime example of it.
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Michaelll_ - Mar 11, 2023
Good luck
Quote:I'm hoping for a better improvement of my relationship with my parents and it being better for my overall mental health.
It 100% will
RE: Officially moving out of my parents house - Spookyy - Mar 12, 2023
Congratulations and I wish you the best in life. Your life will hopefully only progress from here on out.