(Oct 26, 2021 05:48 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  So recently I got in a fight with acquaintance of mine, we got into an arguement where we were fighting over how much money I was supposed to give to this person , basically we had a dinner some time back and I paid for some food for both of us but I was already in debt back then , so I was supposed to give him more money soon , we argued because I was saying I owed him only 10 bucks and he wanted 15 bucks instead.

To make the long story short he contacted me saying I was hiding from him and being a smartass for not giving him 15 bucks already  in a really rude tone, I replied probably with an even worse tone (what he said really upset me ) telling him to chillout and I reminded him that I thought I only had to give him 10 , after that he blocked me everywhere and told me we are done for .


What hurts me is that he was supposed to be a close friend who I should have been able to trust , I have known this person for a very long time (5/6 years) however he did this on purpose to hurt me and make me feel alone and sad because he knew he was one of the few friends I had , he knew my weakness and he used it against me .
I really feel like doing something to get back at this person now even if I know this is not the best behavior but he really acted out on the only purpose to hurt me, so why shouldn’t I hurt him back ?!
I’ve been trying to restrain myself from taking revenge because I fear I might regret this but the more I think about what he did the angrier I get about this . How could our friendship mean so little to him??

I am sorry for this very long post but I feel very frustrated about this

(Nov 3, 2021 08:53 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  Little update guys !
He unblocked me and we both apologized !
He actually told me that I was right and it was Indeed only 10 bucks instead of 15 , I will be giving this guy the money I owe him and afterwards we’ll see, but I will remember how he acted in the future !

Thanks everyone for the support

(Oct 26, 2021 05:48 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  So recently I got in a fight with acquaintance of mine, we got into an arguement where we were fighting over how much money I was supposed to give to this person , basically we had a dinner some time back and I paid for some food for both of us but I was already in debt back then , so I was supposed to give him more money soon , we argued because I was saying I owed him only 10 bucks and he wanted 15 bucks instead.

To make the long story short he contacted me saying I was hiding from him and being a smartass for not giving him 15 bucks already  in a really rude tone, I replied probably with an even worse tone (what he said really upset me ) telling him to chillout and I reminded him that I thought I only had to give him 10 , after that he blocked me everywhere and told me we are done for .


What hurts me is that he was supposed to be a close friend who I should have been able to trust , I have known this person for a very long time (5/6 years) however he did this on purpose to hurt me and make me feel alone and sad because he knew he was one of the few friends I had , he knew my weakness and he used it against me .
I really feel like doing something to get back at this person now even if I know this is not the best behavior but he really acted out on the only purpose to hurt me, so why shouldn’t I hurt him back ?!
I’ve been trying to restrain myself from taking revenge because I fear I might regret this but the more I think about what he did the angrier I get about this . How could our friendship mean so little to him??

I am sorry for this very long post but I feel very frustrated about this