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Really feel like taking revenge on a supposed friend

I’d just let it go and move on
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No need to take revenge. It sucks that you had to see their true colors like that, but be thankful you did and you can now cut him out of your life before he does anything worst.
Give him what he’s owed and tell him to jog on. $10 is $10.

Drop him tbh
All I can say is he aint your friend if he gives you shit over $10.
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Never share money with best friends, it always ends up like this.

Don't go into revenge for such a issue, i believe you are still young.. Do not ruin yourself over this.
That's a $10 lesson. I had a friend like this before you would ask them for money and they would make a big deal out of it. But when that person asks you, you should give it to them no questions asked. I cut people like that out my life long ago. Although I'm surprised at how many people act like this.
What did you end up doing op? Did everything go as planned?
Don't let it live in your head rent free. Move on, hit the gym, get gains, all will settle.
Wtf?

Yeah me and my friends try to keep it balanced by remembering who bought people drinks when and that kinda stuff but we never even bother counting the amount we paid for each other, nevermind arguing over $5.

Sounds like you both maybe just need to sort your personal finances and then you won't have that kinda argument with anyone in future because those sums of money will become meaningless to you.
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(Oct 26, 2021 05:48 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  So recently I got in a fight with acquaintance of mine, we got into an arguement where we were fighting over how much money I was supposed to give to this person , basically we had a dinner some time back and I paid for some food for both of us but I was already in debt back then , so I was supposed to give him more money soon , we argued because I was saying I owed him only 10 bucks and he wanted 15 bucks instead.

To make the long story short he contacted me saying I was hiding from him and being a smartass for not giving him 15 bucks already  in a really rude tone, I replied probably with an even worse tone (what he said really upset me ) telling him to chillout and I reminded him that I thought I only had to give him 10 , after that he blocked me everywhere and told me we are done for .


What hurts me is that he was supposed to be a close friend who I should have been able to trust , I have known this person for a very long time (5/6 years) however he did this on purpose to hurt me and make me feel alone and sad because he knew he was one of the few friends I had , he knew my weakness and he used it against me .
I really feel like doing something to get back at this person now even if I know this is not the best behavior but he really acted out on the only purpose to hurt me, so why shouldn’t I hurt him back ?!
I’ve been trying to restrain myself from taking revenge because I fear I might regret this but the more I think about what he did the angrier I get about this . How could our friendship mean so little to him??

I am sorry for this very long post but I feel very frustrated about this

Think about what your actions will do first.
Little update guys !
He unblocked me and we both apologized !
He actually told me that I was right and it was Indeed only 10 bucks instead of 15 , I will be giving this guy the money I owe him and afterwards we’ll see, but I will remember how he acted in the future !

Thanks everyone for the support
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(Nov 3, 2021 08:53 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  Little update guys !
He unblocked me and we both apologized !
He actually told me that I was right and it was Indeed only 10 bucks instead of 15 , I will be giving this guy the money I owe him and afterwards we’ll see, but I will remember how he acted in the future !

Thanks everyone for the support

Good stuff glad it worked out, try to avoid lending money if possible in the future to avoid shit like this.
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(Oct 26, 2021 05:48 AM)Fallout 3 Wrote:  So recently I got in a fight with acquaintance of mine, we got into an arguement where we were fighting over how much money I was supposed to give to this person , basically we had a dinner some time back and I paid for some food for both of us but I was already in debt back then , so I was supposed to give him more money soon , we argued because I was saying I owed him only 10 bucks and he wanted 15 bucks instead.

To make the long story short he contacted me saying I was hiding from him and being a smartass for not giving him 15 bucks already  in a really rude tone, I replied probably with an even worse tone (what he said really upset me ) telling him to chillout and I reminded him that I thought I only had to give him 10 , after that he blocked me everywhere and told me we are done for .


What hurts me is that he was supposed to be a close friend who I should have been able to trust , I have known this person for a very long time (5/6 years) however he did this on purpose to hurt me and make me feel alone and sad because he knew he was one of the few friends I had , he knew my weakness and he used it against me .
I really feel like doing something to get back at this person now even if I know this is not the best behavior but he really acted out on the only purpose to hurt me, so why shouldn’t I hurt him back ?!
I’ve been trying to restrain myself from taking revenge because I fear I might regret this but the more I think about what he did the angrier I get about this . How could our friendship mean so little to him??

I am sorry for this very long post but I feel very frustrated about this

You can stay far away but I won't advise you to take revenge on people that hurt you or betray your trust, two wrongs will never make a right.
i would just find new friends thats super petty


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