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[Phoenix] Anonymous Life Counseling 3.0 - Rigel - Nov 22, 2014
Original thread: Here
Version 2.0: Here
What is this?
This thread could be seen as a help desk. Unfortunately, there is one main problem with help desks that are about people's personal life: anonymity. On this thread, I'll post my advice, everyone can see it, but no one will know that you were the one who told me about your problem nor will I know who sent me their problem so you can be sure that other people on Hack Forums won't know your identity. Of course you are free to post in here as per usual like other help desks or PM me if you find that easier.
How does this work?
All you have to do is visit this link and describe your problem. I will get notified of the submission, and will do my best to reply asap, with the submission quoted here, and to the best of my ability.
What can you ask me?
You can ask me anything related to your personal life; doesn't matter if it's about your family, love, or sexuality. Everything related to your personal life will be answered. If I think you're trolling, I will skip your problem but I'm doing this assuming we're all mature enough not to troll. People need help in this world and I'd be willing to do so. So anything's up for discussion, it s doesn't even have to be something you need help. I'm willing to let you vent out daily frustrations and lend an understanding ear.
* - ＮＳＦＷ - Nov 22, 2014
Let me know if you need any help on this and we can split it. I love helping people out.
* - Jester Race - Nov 22, 2014
Title is misleadin, I am sure Anonymous wouldn't do life Counseling here.
* - Aurora - Nov 22, 2014
(Nov 22, 2014 12:59 PM)Darctan Wrote: Title is misleadin, I am sure Anonymous wouldn't do life Counseling here.
Or your mind can't comprehend. This is a "private" life counseling. Your name will not be revealed to the people. You can discuss your problems using that link, and OP will answer your problem. No one will know who asked the question. That's what it meant by "anonymous". The 'A' is capitalize because it's a title.
* - Ienaos - Nov 22, 2014
(Nov 22, 2014 12:59 PM)Darctan Wrote: Title is misleadin, I am sure Anonymous wouldn't do life Counseling here.
I can't tell if this was a petty attempt at being funny, or just plain stupidity.
* - Rigel - Nov 22, 2014
It is anonymous if you're not comfortable sharing personal life on Hack Forums and be known about it but if you don't want to submit, you can just post your problem here like in all other help desks.
(Nov 22, 2014 11:55 AM)Totoro. Wrote: Let me know if you need any help on this and we can split it. I love helping people out.
Hmm, PM me and we will talk about it.
Quote:Since first year of college (I'm in second now) I've fancied the same girl, she had a bf up until recently and I'd like to ask her out or make it clear to her in some way that I like her, my only two issues are the fact that I havent directly talked to her at all since second semester of first year and that I have a rep with those in my course as the tech guy as in the guy that made skulls appear during a presentation on a lecturers computer. I'm not thought of positively nor trusted much (I wonder why). Its coming up to christmas and I was thinking of getting her a present or waiting till valentines day in February in order to get her something. I've asked advice from a friend of hers to no luck and I'm not even sure if that friend said anything to her or not. I just dont know what to do...
You definitely need to get back in contact with her and start talking like you guys have before. Might not be trusted much but what's important is how she feels, this is college and she is quite capable to make an honest impression of you. I would find giving her a present on Christmas a bit too soon but she will find it sweet but you need to definitely start talking to her. Do you have her Facebook that you can communicate with her on? If you know her name or have a friend that knows her, you can search for it and talk on Facebook chat. You can, at some point, you can make up an excuse saying your Internet is going to be cut for a few days and ask for her number.
Quote:well sometimes it wont let me poo out of my bum hole
I would recommend eating fiber while consuming water to alleviate that problem as well as chewing your food better. If all else fails, prune juice will help this problem along.
* - ʆord Ƒrieza - Nov 22, 2014
Yo, give me some advice.
I want to fuck my manager, she has the fattest ass I've ever seen in a 40+year old woman. I'm always pretty respectful to everyone here at work. It's always yes ma'am no ma'am when I speak to her. She is married but from what I've she always seems dreaded around him. Now I'm not obsessed or desperate but sex with her would be one hell of a story to tell and experience.
Help me out.
* - xMadnez - Nov 22, 2014
emailed and pm'd , sorry ignore the pm
* - Rigel - Nov 22, 2014
(Nov 22, 2014 03:50 PM)ʆord Ƒrieza Wrote: Yo, give me some advice.
I want to fuck my manager, she has the fattest ass I've ever seen in a 40+year old woman. I'm always pretty respectful to everyone here at work. It's always yes ma'am no ma'am when I speak to her. She is married but from what I've she always seems dreaded around him. Now I'm not obsessed or desperate but sex with her would be one hell of a story to tell and experience.
Help me out.
I still wouldn't try anything until she's divorced or separated from her husband and there's no telling when that'll happen. We both don't know the whole story behind that marriage.
(Nov 22, 2014 04:31 PM)xMadnez Wrote: emailed and pm'd , sorry ignore the pm
Lol okay.
Quote:A girl I've known for 5 years (we were together 3-4 years ago), refused "politely"/lied to me when I asked her to join me and a few others to go see a movie. She's one of the weirdest girls I know, and she's pretty unpredictable, and very shy when she's around me. She's also been giving off signs she's into me the past weeks, but as I said she's unpredictable and now I don't trust her.
How should I handle this? Confront her?
Also, don't mistake me for a 13 year old because of how childish she behaves.
Are you sure she wasn't busy that particular night? I wouldn't jump to conclusions unless she really flat out rejected you saying she's busy and she later tells everyone on Facebook that she's bored. I wouldn't confront her just yet but invite her out with your friends again one more time. Also what signs are you referring to?
Quote:Both my SO and I are virgins. With our wedding coming up I'm probably thinking about the night after more than I should, but I've heard that the first time for a girl isn't very great. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to go down on her and get her off before actually starting. I care more about her pleasure than my own.
Well that would be part of the experience, you don't just go at it the moment the clothes are off. You gotta do the foreplay then take turns giving each other pleasure (yes, you do the girl first with the fingering and eating her out) before you stick it in her. Also you can communicate with her during sex, you can kiss her neck, lick her ear and whisper seductively.
Quote: i'd be grateful for some help in this situation
I liked a girl when i was around 10-11 , we then lost contact , but i never lost feelings for her , the occasions i did see her my feelings arose , without even having to talk to her , just the site of her made me happy , like actually happy , seems like dumb love or something , then recently she texted me when we were at a same event ( school football match ) because she knew i was there and was seeing if we ought to go home together because we live somewhat near each other . Her mum picked us up and took me to my house ( our families know each other ) , she was geniunly wanting to and basically telling her mum to come in so me n her could catch up , this is the first time we'd spoken in 5 years , yet still we were 100% open with each other and talked about quite intense / deep / secretive stuff - including like talking about would she give blowjobs , how long would she wait , nudes , she was telling me how fingereing kinda freaks her out, etc .....after she added me on snapchat and i made an effort , we talked for a bit by text and now occasionly still do snapchat , but yesterday she snapchatted me and we were both a bit bored and she sent me along with some other normal convo snapchats , " i just feel like a snog right now" , i have no idea if thats a sign , but i tried to play on it and told her i'd be at her house in 5 min , to which she seemed to simply ignore the comment , and then proceeded to say goodnight because she had to wake up early tommorow . She rarely starts convos , and its hard to keep them going , but in real life it is much easier, whats your opinion on my chances to get with her and what actions i should take .
Also , i have a tendancy to fall for other girls fast and hard in general anyway , suggestions on how to stop that ?
From what you wrote, you sound like there's a good chance but I say you shouldn't rush these things. Romance happens naturally and most relationships tend to fail if you go too much too fast or if you guys just responded to too much attraction and not enough understanding and mutual interests. I'd say keep doing what you do and ask her to hang out for lunch or dinner sometime since you said you guys talk better in person than on Snapchat.
As for falling in love too hard, keep yourself busy. The idle mind is a devil's playground.
* - Crypto™ - Nov 23, 2014
You rock for doing this <3 I might take you up on this at some point.
* - Rigel - Nov 24, 2014
(Nov 23, 2014 02:32 PM)Crypto™ Wrote: You rock for doing this <3 I might take you up on this at some point.
Hahaha awesome. Everyone else, I'm still available to take your questions and advice.
Quote:Hello there, 14 year old teen with them teen problems ( boy ), just late-night thoughts you know, have to learn for a test coming up tomorrow but oh well... :P
So yeah, I'm 14, I go to taekwondo 3-4 times a week ( 2 hour sessions ), play the violin for about 6 years, go to the hardest school you can get into ( HS ) and have a wealthy family.
It seems perfect, right? Sports, romantic music, rich, smart, well guess not.
My god my ''life'' has been a fuckall, seriously, I always try to get the greatest out of my self, to show passion to that kid who no one els likes, but it just wont work anymore.
I always was kind, would share anything I had, would never harm anyone or get into a fight ( outside of taekwondo ofc. ), hell I wouldn't even dare to kill a fly, haha.
But then I fell in love, and got rejected. So I thought: ''Oh well, everyone says there are many more to come, don't get so upset.'' And I tried not to, but you know that saying that if you want something so badly, it would never happen and if you weren't expecting ( wanting ) it, it would randomly happen? That's what happend.
I tried so hard to me happy each day ( Be my normal me ) at school, with friends, with family, but I just got more and more sad...
I had been feeling no love, no emphaty ( if that is spelled correctly ), from neighter my friends, or my family. Like, I know they love me, but I just don't feel it. Don't see it, eighter.
I know everyone tries their best to keep me happy and get me laughing again but, yeah...
Everything just went downhill from there, till where I am now. Sitting here behind this desk, regretting everything I did in my life that caused me to sit here, type about my problems feeling like a phatetic fuck, hell, you don't even have to awnser it anymore, fuck it.
I fell in love again later, and with later I mean about 2 weeks ago, lol.
Can't imagine a day without this person, but she is in a grade higher then me and will also most likely reject me, I'm not fat, not ugly ( I think ), I would threat her like a princess but what do I know? I'm just a child right, the world ain't all sunshine and blablabla.
Wait a second...hey I think I know you from my previous threads for Anonymous Life Counseling. I see that you're still struggling with finding purpose in life and I was in your position at that age back when I presented female. The world seemed pointless and just getting through the day took effort. Though I have to ask: are the things you're doing, like violin and taekwondo, because you want to do them or you feel a sense of obligation to do it? Are you super nice and generous with others because that's who you are or you do it as if it was forced? I think everything you told me sounds very forced and you're feeling rather resentful because of it. Also, girls can also sense confidence so even if you're really good looking, they'll reject you if you don't take the initiative and don't really carry yourself well. Confidence and a bit of risk taking is what gets you the girl. It doesn't matter if you're just a teenager, the world should be understood on some level at this point.
Hope this helps, let me know if you still need a hand.