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Is it better to be the good guy or bad guy ?

Good guy, be who you are
Although it is generally true that goodness tends to be noticeable, I have observed instances where certain girls still desire to be with a guy despite being aware of his negative traits.

But for me I guess to be on the good guy would be the best choice.
Girls who are attracted to bad guys are usually insecure or have some kind of issues with their parents. Goes both ways.
It's just a facade.
I feel like they want bad guys then complain if they’re treated badly so def middle ground between the 2 would be best
Every time I see this statement or ask myself this question I Instantly go back to a quote I heard that I'm sure is cliché but it is such a good response to this

"Don't be a nice guy, Be a good Man"

Basically when something comes around that confronts or questions your belief's or moral's/values you need to be a GOOD MAN not a NICE GUY. you have to respect and take care of yourself first before being a people pleaser.
When everyone becomes "Adults", things change drastically. I wouldn't worry about it too much and just let life naturally take its course. You'd be surprised how much tension you start feeling just rushing out of you.


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