[thehuntinmaniac]

So the other day I went out with my friend, his girlfriend, and his girlfriends friend, yes there was alcohol... And yes things got a little carried away for my liking. We got split into 2 groups obviously, got really drunk, and the only things that I remember are making out with her, then giving her MASSIVE hickeys, then pretty much fingering her... It's not that bad, but the real problem is that that was the first time I have ever met her and I really don't like her. Whilst her saying how perfect I was and how I couldn't be real and all that bullshit guilt stuff all night. Another problem? I find out at the end of the night that she had only had like a sip of a drink all night, yes completely sober. Now I feel really shitty, and don't know how to tell her. On top of it, she is crazier then she sounds from this thread.

EDIT: oh yeah, forgot to mention 2 things, at the end of the night I also found out that she used to be suicidal, and I don't have my phone right now

Please help,
Thehuntinmaniac

[thehuntinmaniac]

Hello fellow maniac!

You dun goofed. You should find a way to calmly explain and apologize to the girl otherwise the longer it goes the more hurt she'll feel. Think of it the same way as how you would feel if a girl treated you similarly after hooking up one night and not wanting to go further. Most people can understand getting caught up in the moment, so I would personally stick with that - blaming it on the alcohol is a decrement to your humbleness, although if that option suits you then I can see how it may be a suitable option in some social groups.

Good luck!

Thanks maniac I'll try that! The only thing is that I don't have my phone right now for 3 days so far and not sure how much longer...

[thehuntinmaniac]

Get to know her, then if you still dont start to like her, just tap n gap, just start minimising how much you talk to her till she completely stops messaging you :)

The thing is is like Ross said, I'm not into being a time consuming pain in the ass relationship.

I say don't get to know her. She is this clingy now, think about later. Shoe her off while you can. This girl is a ticking time bomb of emotions and drama

thanks for your input guys and I'll see what I can do 🤝

I mean I don't want to be a dick, but still... Plus there's another girl I kinda wanna date, but haven't asked her out yet cause she works like every day during the summer O.o and the days she aren't, I'm away

[thehuntinmaniac]

UPDATE: she actually took it really well! thanks guys, after this whole thread, i pretty much just told her to fuck off, and now i deleted her number have a good day guys! 👍