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A group of "friends" - Fake friends?

Hi what's up? So I have a little story for you guys and need your opinion on it seriously.

I'll make this as short as possible, I wasn't even planning on asking this here but fuck it.

So right now I'm in a little dilemma and thinking if my friends are really even my real friends or they're just fake.

The thing is that it's not that I don't have any I do but I feel like all of them are fake as fuck and snakes I can't even rely on them.

Most of the time I have to take take of my own problems they're not ever there for me to help me out.

Lately I've been hanging out with a group of friends like 4-5 of them are we were going out a lot, chilling and so.

But after a certain time they cut the thing with me they found a new crew of friends and hang with them most of the time I already met those people but don't feel like being with them.

So yeah now we go out for a drink or so maybe once and month and that's it's not like it used to be.

Right now it's pretty late while I'm typing this and my mind is somewhere else so probably all of this makes no sense but you get the point.

My main issue is I noticed lately that my "friends" never message me first anymore or even call me I always have to message first and after that we arrange to go out somehwhere.

I don't really know what's the problem here, when they go out with me they always have a good time and I make them laugh but this is bothering me so much.

Someone please help me out somehow.

Thanks!
They sound like the type of people who are always trying to merge/fit-in with other groups.

Like one of my best friends for example, we used to be really tight and all, but then he started drinking a ton, doing different drugs, and hanging out/partying with a ton of different people.

He is still my homie and all but he is always looking for the "next thing" in life, which in all honestly, I can completely understand. I am not into the same things as him, and I am not looking to find my place the same way as him.

He still hits me up and we still chill a lot, but when it comes to partying and socializing with "his side", I think he is more-or-less trying to be considerate of his other friends (like myself) that don't revolve myself around certain people.

I hope my situation helps out with your situation a bit.