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Whats a behavior that instantly makes you lose respect for someone?

(Dec 18, 2025 07:41 AM)JoshAllen Wrote:  For me, it is people that are rude to staff at like at restaurants.

I hate people that treat these people poorly because they know they can't really defend themselves.

Abusing one's position is a big red flag, it reminds me of something a "mentor figure" told me before:

If you want to understand an individual's potential for corruption when they reach a place of power, sit with them at a restaurant at the same table. If they take all the free tissue given at the table and put it in their bag, they would do the same with the resources they may access one day.

This example is more about corruption, which I believe is the super category of power abuse, and the only issue that if exists in a company/organization the only solution is to permanently end the business entity/brand.
I hate virtue signalers. Once I find out someone I know is a virtue signaler, the bridge is going up in flames.
Ungrateful individuals. I dislike them.
People that expect me to do their thinking for them.

For example if someone comes to me presenting a problem they need to solve and expect me to solve it for them without first making any effort whatsoever to try to solution the problem themselves.

I now distance myself from anyone that behaves this way, or otherwise defaults to a position of treating me as if my time isn't as important as their own.
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I've always said people that are rude to waiters/food workers are scum of the earth. No I've never worked in food industry
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