Jun 17, 2019 08:28 AM
(This post was last modified: Jun 17, 2019 08:29 AM by ChangLee159.)
Hello!
To the point... I'm in love with ENFJ female.
Could you guys (or girls) give me some tips on how to treat ENFJ girl? What should I do, what I definetly should not do and things like that. Anything that you know about ENFJ (female)...
Thanks!
-INFP (me)
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(Jun 17, 2019 08:28 AM)ChangLee159 Wrote: Hello!
To the point... I'm in love with ENFJ female.
Could you guys (or girls) give me some tips on how to treat ENFJ girl? What should I do, what I definetly should not do and things like that. Anything that you know about ENFJ (female)...
Thanks!
-INFP (me)
The notion that you should alter the way you treat someone based upon pseudo-scientific personality traits is utterly ridiculous.
Everyone is different, treat her based around what she likes. Find out what she likes by talking to her...
(Jun 17, 2019 08:39 AM)M L T Wrote: The notion that you should alter the way you treat someone based upon pseudo-scientific personality traits is utterly ridiculous.
Everyone is different, treat her based around what she likes. Find out what she likes by talking to her...
Ofcourse.
But since I know her MBTI I think it is very good idea. I have been watching videos about my type of personality and it is sooo accurate. So why shouldn't I try it??
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(Jun 17, 2019 08:49 AM)ChangLee159 Wrote: Ofcourse.
But since I know her MBTI I think it is very good idea. I have been watching videos about my type of personality and it is sooo accurate. So why shouldn't I try it??
Well first off, how exactly do you know she's ENFJ?
Jun 17, 2019 08:57 AM
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(Jun 17, 2019 08:54 AM)M L T Wrote: Well first off, how exactly do you know she's ENFJ?
https://www.16personalities.com/
She did that twice.
+ I was totally sure after I read the first quotation about ENFJ.
You're gonna get caught up in her personality type and miss out on what makes her unique. Drop the personality type idea.
Jun 17, 2019 09:05 AM
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(Jun 17, 2019 08:58 AM)Shaq Wrote: You're gonna get caught up in her personality type and miss out on what makes her unique. Drop the personality type idea.
You guys really think that I will be talking/chatting with her while reading information about ENFJ? NO
This is just to understand some meanings of her behavior etc...
What the hell am I reading? Talk to her like any girl you'd talk to I wouldn't base anything off of a "personality type". Personalities are dynamic.
(Jun 17, 2019 09:05 AM)ChangLee159 Wrote: You guys really think that I will be talking/chatting with her while reading information about ENFJ? NO
This is just to understand some meanings of her behavior etc...
It's a generalization. ENFJ is a generalization just like mental illnesses are and any other way of classifying a person. It's not going to do any good to know a personality type and give you advice because we don't know the whole picture and we don't know the person you are talking to.
If you want our help, or my help at least, give us more to go off of than their personality type. Otherwise I recommend finding a counselor that you feel comfortable disclosing more info too that may help you find better answers.
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Pretty much every other comment in this thread is putting across the same point I was trying to make.
Out of curiosity, do you have much past experience with dating/.
Jun 17, 2019 11:45 AM
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(Jun 17, 2019 08:39 AM)M L T Wrote: The notion that you should alter the way you treat someone based upon pseudo-scientific personality traits is utterly ridiculous.
Everyone is different, treat her based around what she likes. Find out what she likes by talking to her...
Vouch for MLT on this one. It's more of a connection and feeling opposed to "I have to do this" type of thing.
I say you scratch her butt for her in the morning and cook her breakfast ;p
(Jun 17, 2019 11:45 AM)A + Wrote: Vouch for MLT on this one. It's more of a connection and feeling opposed to "I have to do this" type of thing.
I say you scratch her butt for her in the morning and cook her breakfast ;p
Vouch for this method! Butt rubs = Happy wife = Happy life.
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