Eh. I joke around a little too much at times, especially when it's supposed to be serious and certainly not an appropriate time to crack jokes. It's a defense mechanism, I seriously can't control it. It annoys people. Hell, it even annoys me.
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 (May 12, 2020 08:00 AM)MrJamesDean Wrote: I'm the same way! I find things like funerals really tough because I tend to end up laughing at something, and the pressure of being respectful and quiet gets too hard, and I have to walk out for a bit which makes people think I'm crying lol. Fuck sake im not alone it seems. I guess you understand me pretty well lmao. ![[Image: IyGyL0S.gif]](https://i.imgur.com/IyGyL0S.gif) 
I have a few, so I let you decide what's worse;
< I have issues to treat the people as they should deserve to be treated (I am too kind for some 'unfriendly' or narcissistic people) < I have issues to be unbiased or not cruel when something 'unfair' happens in life (I help you cross the road, so I don't expect you to stab me. So I'd love to stab you slowly to make sure you feel the same 'unfair betrayal' as I did!) < I have issues to trust other people by their words, if I think their body language and/or routines are lying or telling me different (helped me a lot though) Those are fictional examples of the scenarios that could happen which I find myself recognising my own toxic treats.. don't take them too seriously. Those are the 3 'most toxic' in my eyes. I do got a temper, but so does Omniscient and he can run an empire like this, so my temper should be good for something in life, right? Passionate? Who knows! 🤣 (May 12, 2020 03:11 AM)Inversed Wrote: My most toxic trait is that I always laugh in serious moments, doesn't matter what's the situation even if im on a funeral if I see a slight grin i'd probably burst out laughing and I can't help it. 🙄 I have no toxic traits. I'm perfect. (May 12, 2020 01:04 PM)funtela Wrote: I have no toxic traits. I'm perfect. Insanity. Vanity. Or perhaps condescension. What is the word we're looking for here? Joking my man, I love your post ✌ (May 12, 2020 01:00 PM)LoremIpsum Wrote: I have a few, so I let you decide what's worse; Actually those seem pretty reasonable and I relate to all of them I must say. Not much of a back stabber or the one who would seek payback but yeah I also treat people in a way that I shouldn't or as you said "as they deserve". I feel you my man :D (May 12, 2020 01:08 PM)LoremIpsum Wrote: Insanity. Vanity. Or perhaps condescension. Haha I have tons of flaws. Jealousy is a pretty big one I'm trying to work on. (May 12, 2020 01:12 PM)funtela Wrote: Haha I have tons of flaws. I can't help myself on this one either. But I don't consider it my worst trait. Come on... Laughing at funerals should be the winner here. (May 12, 2020 01:14 PM)Inversed Wrote: I can't help myself on this one either. But I don't consider it my worst trait. Come on... Laughing at funerals should be the winner here. I tend to laugh at inappropriate times too. I think it has something to do with how we handle/control our emotions. (May 12, 2020 01:15 PM)funtela Wrote: I tend to laugh at inappropriate times too. I think it has something to do with how we handle/control our emotions. That's true. But it's better this way no matter how "arrogant" it looks in others eyes. At least you are not overwhelmed with stress/anger and too much emotions overall.  (May 12, 2020 12:44 PM)Inversed Wrote: fugg sake im not alone it seems. I guess you understand me pretty well lmao. Hahaha yeah I totally get the struggle man. I was like it throughout school too, whenever someone got in trouble or we were told to settle down because of some serious reason, that would really set me off and the slightest thing would have me laughing. I have this one memory of a time my buddy got in some trouble for throwing pencils and someone got hit in the cheek, and while he was getting yelled at a girl at the front of the class tossed her eraser in the air to catch it but it fell on the desk instead, and it reallllly made me laugh even though it wasn't funny at all. I tried explaining why I was laughing but of course no one bought it, so I ended up in more trouble than my buddy lol.
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(May 12, 2020 01:43 PM)MrJamesDean Wrote: Hahaha yeah I totally get the struggle man. I was like it throughout school too, whenever someone got in trouble or we were told to settle down because of some serious reason, that would really set me off and the slightest thing would have me laughing. I have this one memory of a time my buddy got in some trouble for throwing pencils and someone got hit in the cheek, and while he was getting yelled at a girl at the front of the class tossed her eraser in the air to catch it but it fell on the desk instead, and it reallllly made me laugh even though it wasn't funny at all. I tried explaining why I was laughing but of course no one bought it, so I ended up in more trouble than my buddy lol. Lmao... So many years passed since I graduated high school but damn. You brought me some good memories about the past haha. I had similar moments as well. When the teacher kicks us out with my buddy because we are laughing all the time and makes us stand outside the room in front of the door just to "laugh it off" when we are outside it's not funny at all but the moment we get inside we burst out laughing again. No explanation for that either lol. (May 12, 2020 01:12 PM)Inversed Wrote: Actually those seem pretty reasonable and I relate to all of them I must say. Not much of a back stabber or the one who would seek payback but yeah I also treat people in a way that I shouldn't or as you said "as they deserve". Thank you my man, love :-) (May 12, 2020 01:12 PM)funtela Wrote: Haha I have tons of flaws.Jealousy you were “born with” or happened during life? I think thats a huge part when trying to work on it. |
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