Can ANYONE help me. I think my SO is on POF. I need to find away to see if his phone number is linked to a certain account. I don’t need to get into the account per say but I need to know if it’s him! Is there anyway to do it.
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 (Aug 29, 2020 08:17 PM)Danielled84 Wrote: Can ANYONE help me. I think my SO is on POF. I need to find away to see if his phone number is linked to a certain account. I don’t need to get into the account per say but I need to know if it’s him! Is there anyway to do it. This person can't be that "significant" if you are filled with insecurity. Nonetheless, if he really is stepping out, he is doing you a favor because at that moment you will realize that you shouldnt be wasting your time with someone who doesnt give too much of a crap about you. This is some teenage crap lol (Aug 29, 2020 08:31 PM)f1re_w1re Wrote: This person can't be that "significant" if you are filled with insecurity. Nonetheless, if he really is stepping out, he is doing you a favor because at that moment you will realize that you shouldnt be wasting your time with someone who doesnt give too much of a crap about you. This is some teenage crap lol I know. And I agree with you. I have this crazy intuition that it’s him. I’ve have tried so hard to prove it. But I need hard proof that it’s him before I go to him with it. If I simply tell him I suspect, he will deny it. Sad thing is he’s in his 40s lol, so if he is doing it, it’s rough. We’ve been together 3 years now. My gut is just telling me something is off, and this profile is him to a T. (Aug 29, 2020 08:34 PM)Danielled84 Wrote: I know. And I agree with you. I have this crazy intuition that it’s him. I’ve have tried so hard to prove it. But I need hard proof that it’s him before I go to him with it. If I simply tell him I suspect, he will deny it. Sad thing is he’s in his 40s lol, so if he is doing it, it’s rough. We’ve been together 3 years now. My gut is just telling me something is off, and this profile is him to a T. It's very sad to witness how poor communicators you guys are. Is that really the person you want to be around? Do you like being filled with constant doubt? If you can't go to him about something that youre struggling with, then that person is not going to be sticking around for the hard decisions with you. 3 years is nothing girl, im married and im only doing wrong if i dont express my intent and emotions. Dont be like my mom whose with some guy for 10 years that treats her like crap and dont want to leave because it's easier to stay. Create the world you want to live in. Good luck. And no, it is highly unlikely that anyone will help you with this. Primary because hacking is illegal (see how silly your request sounds now?) and secondly, there is no price point. Time is money, they say, i agree with "they". (Aug 29, 2020 08:43 PM)f1re_w1re Wrote: It's very sad to witness how poor communicators you guys are. Is that really the person you want to be around? Do you like being filled with constant doubt? If you can't go to him about something that youre struggling with, then that person is not going to be sticking around for the hard decisions with you. 3 years is nothing girl, im married and im only doing wrong if i dont express my intent and emotions. Dont be like my mom whose with some guy for 10 years that treats her like crap and dont want to leave because it's easier to stay. Create the world you want to live in. Good luck. Thank you for your honesty. I know I must sound like a crazy person. I feel like I’m crazy!! I have but my tongue so many times over the last few weeks because I just want to confront him and get it over with. It’s been a lot of sleepless nights. Thank you again. (Aug 29, 2020 08:45 PM)Danielled84 Wrote: Thank you for your honesty. I know I must sound like a crazy person. I feel like I’m crazy!! I have but my tongue so many times over the last few weeks because I just want to confront him and get it over with. It’s been a lot of sleepless nights. Youre better than that and youre not crazy, but you have to face your demons. You know how people say "face your fears", this is contextual to your situation. You got this. PM me if you need a sanity check. |
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