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Poll: Do you approve of Poly relationships?
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Yes
19.64%
11 19.64%
No
50.00%
28 50.00%
Don't care either way
30.36%
17 30.36%
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How do you feel about Poly relationships?

How do you feel about Poly relationships? 🙄

Do you approve or not?

My wife and I recently took on a boyfriend, we made it "official" yesterday. We've been having MMF and FFM threesomes for a while now and wanted to upgrade things a bit.

How does HF feel about this? 
Is your relationship secure enough to add in a third person?
I don’t wanna be in a poly relationship but I see nothing wrong with it if all parties are consenting.
(Oct 18, 2022 05:24 PM)Vibe Wrote:  I don’t wanna be in a poly relationship but I see nothing wrong with it if all parties are consenting.

I totally understand that they're not for everyone. Good on you for being open minded though.
I'm in a mono relationship, and wouldn't want to change that. However, if I wasn't happily taken, I wouldn't mind being introduced into another couple.

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(Oct 18, 2022 05:38 PM)Mac Miller Wrote:  I'm in a mono relationship, and wouldn't want to change that. However, if I wasn't happily taken, I wouldn't mind being introduced into another couple.

Would you have a preference on gender of either? Guy and a girl? two girls? two guys?
(Oct 18, 2022 05:39 PM)Bob White Wrote:  Would you have a preference on gender of either? Guy and a girl? two girls? two guys?

I'm bisexual so not really. If both of the people in the open relationship are cool gender doesn't really matter to much, respecting boundaries is a must.

I've never had the urge to open any of my relationships up though

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Not my current lifestyle but i see that in some point in time i could have chosen that path, congrats on your new relationship!

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(Oct 18, 2022 05:45 PM)Mac Miller Wrote:  I'm bisexual so not really. If both of the people in the open relationship are cool gender doesn't really matter to much, respecting boundaries is a must.

I've never had the urge to open any of my relationships up though

This is a first for us. Threesomes were fun but we want somebody reliable that we can also care for as well, and will care for us.


(Oct 18, 2022 05:47 PM)shakur123 Wrote:  Not my current lifestyle but i see that in some point in time i could have chosen that path, congrats on your new relationship!

Thanks! We brought him over for some simple cuddles and pizza last night and well, it did not end up being pizza and cuddles at all lol.
Don't care either way. You're not hurting anyone and as long as everyone understands each other keep doing whatever makes you happy.
Nice to meet ya.
(Oct 18, 2022 05:52 PM)Seaking Wrote:  Don't care either way. You're not hurting anyone and as long as everyone understands each other keep doing whatever makes you happy.

Thanks friend. I really anticipated a lot more hate. I'm sure it will show up eventually.
(Oct 18, 2022 05:53 PM)Bob White Wrote:  Thanks friend. I really anticipated a lot more hate. I'm sure it will show up eventually.

I'm sure a few people will show up that have a reason to hate, and a lot of edgy children will show up as well. Just kill them with kindness.
Nice to meet ya.
Every time a couple tells me they're in an open relationship, I like to think about which one suggested it and which one cries themself to sleep every night.

I just can't imagine sharing those intimate moments with someone else, much less another man.
I guess I just worry about one person being unhappy and doing it only because of not wanting to lose another.
(Oct 18, 2022 06:05 PM)lust Wrote:  Every time a couple tells me they're in an open relationship, I like to think about which one suggested it and which one cries themself to sleep every night.

I just can't imagine sharing those intimate moments with someone else, much less another man.

We're not in an open relationship, I have no interest in one of those. We have a third that we both engage with equally.
Ive got nothing wrong with it but i wouldnt do it personally, im happy as i am


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