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Do you have a pet peeve that boils your blood? Or something that irks you when you see it people do it in public?
Me personally, I cannot stand when people complain and get so hyper-fixated over "micro" problems and don't do nothing to fix it.
I've dealt with a lot of shit in my life and as a result I just have no tolerance for it, I'd say the best approach is a "man up and change it" attitude.
I agree with you, and for the same reason.
A saying in my country is. " If you can do something about it, shut up and do something about it. If you can't do anything about it, shut up and move on. "
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(Oct 2, 2025 01:22 PM)onlineuser | D3RFER Wrote: I agree with you, and for the same reason.
A saying in my country is. " If you can do something about it, shut up and do something about it. If you can't do anything about it, shut up and move on. "
Sounds very... Russian Federation.
And yeah, that's another thing, trying to change something you can't change.
(Oct 2, 2025 01:24 PM)Envy Wrote: Sounds very... Russian Federation.
And yeah, that's another thing, trying to change something you can't change.
Yup. There's no point trying to change something you can't.
It is what it is.
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(Oct 2, 2025 01:27 PM)onlineuser | D3RFER Wrote: Yup. There's no point trying to change something you can't.
It is what it is.
Much happier, healthier, and better off that way.
I've found myself getting too involved with family member's problems to the point where it puts my life on halt too.
One of my brothers is an addict and it's difficult trying to straighten him out because he just doesn't want it for himself.
Learned this the hard way, there's just some things you CANNOT change!
People who are rude to service workers, cassiers, cleaners, etc
Tbh for me that's a major red flag as being a terrible person.
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People that are rude in general. Takes a second to say please and thank you.
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(Oct 2, 2025 01:32 PM)Pοιsonlεaf Wrote: People who are rude to service workers, cassiers, cleaners, etc
Tbh for me that's a major red flag as being a terrible person.
Even with reasoning for said rudeness?
For no reason seems completely unacceptable but maybe for poor service or manners, tipping pressure, etc?
I'll downright refuse to tip if service was below standard or service provider ASKS for tips.
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(Oct 2, 2025 01:34 PM)Envy Wrote: Even with reasoning for said rudeness?
For no reason seems completely unacceptable but maybe for poor service or manners, tipping pressure, etc?
I'll downright refuse to tip if service was below standard or service provider ASKS for tips.
I think 99% of the rudeness towards people in industry is unwarranted.
It is usually caused by people that know the employees can't say anything bad in return at risk to losing their job.
Animal abuse is something that I can't tolerate.
(Oct 2, 2025 01:35 PM)JoshAllen Wrote: I think 99% of the rudeness towards people in industry is unwarranted.
It is usually caused by people that know the employees can't say anything bad in return at risk to losing their job.
Yea exactly. In the very rare case the rudeness would be justified sure. But that's rarely the case.
Also our tiping culture is not tonic so we don't have any issue's there. There is no pressure or no oblication. You do it if you want too for how much you want too.
People who chew with their mouth open or slurp
(Oct 2, 2025 01:40 PM)Wings of Redemption Wrote: People who chew with their mouth open or slurp
On god.
I agree with this so much. It piss me off SO bad.
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(Oct 2, 2025 01:38 PM)Pοιsonlεaf Wrote: Yea exactly. In the very rare case the rudeness would be justified sure. But that's rarely the case.
Also our tiping culture is not tonic so we don't have any issue's there. There is no pressure or no oblication. You do it if you want too for how much you want too.
I have had waitress complain at me for not tipping when i paid with card, but I was going to give her cash.
People who put minimum effort into smth and then say that they cant achieve it. ✌🏿
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