First of all this will most likely be known by all of the expert social engineers out there so this is more tailored to the beginner looking to find easy prey to practice on. I'll use a conversation I had with a girl to explain what I did and what I was looking to get out of it. Ill go through it question by question. :D People like the one below are ideal to exploit because they will be insecure about themselves and also lonely. Knowing their insecurity gives you power over them. For instance, if someone is fat or was fat at some point, you can almost always assume that they see themselves as undesirable. These are the people that get no dates and sit at home on a Saturday night eating cookies while chatting online. There is also a good chance they own at least one cat. These people will rarely reject someone and are very submittable to flirting and advances. Basically if you make them feel good about themselves they will want to reward you. There is a different way to go about handling each insecurity and a different way of exploiting them. I'll just show you how to find it out below.
My comments will be displayed in the puke orange color
You: hey
Stranger: hello stranger
You: well hello
You: so how are you? [This is me trying to get to know basic information, but as you will see she gives it up easily]
Stranger: 20
Stranger: f
Stranger: china
Stranger: ?
You: oh wow whats china like?[the start of finding out where she lives]
Stranger: beautiful
Stranger: very
You: how so? do you live near anything famous?[Looking for an exact location]
Stranger: yes ....west lake ..
Stranger: we call it the heaven ...
Stranger: do you ever heard
You: well know i never heard of it[filler convo, gaining trust]
You: explain it
Stranger: it is a lake ..and it has a long history ..and the natural view is so amazing ...so call it the heaven on earth
You: it must be nice to live so close to something so beautiful then[color=#DAA520][trying to see how close she actually lives to this landmark]
Stranger: yeah ..
Stranger: that's right ...
You: so whats there to do in china?[ the start pf trying to find activities]
Stranger: where you live
You: well I live in new jersey in the united states, nothing special about it[backtracking, you never want to be the one getting asked the questions!]
Stranger: i see///is it the garden state?
Stranger: i see the movie....seems happened in new jersey//
You: yeah they call it the garden state but it isn't pretty like a garden
You: so what do you do for fun?[trying to get the conversation back where I want it]
Stranger: you mean this moment?
Stranger: i like talking to strangers..that's cool ...i can learn alot from sorts of people.. [found out she is lonely][color=#FFFFE0]
You: what types of stuff can you learn? [playing with her mind a bit]
Stranger: sth about their country ...
Stranger: or sth about themself ...that's all attract me ///
Stranger: except smomeone ..who asked me are you horny ^_^
You: LOL
You: well thats very funny lol [I actually found what she said funny lol]
Stranger: LOL
what's that mean?
You: laughing out loud
Stranger: okay.//
Stranger: good/
Stranger: i like make people laugh
You: well thats good, I like to make people laugh also[getting her to trust me more]
You: so how long have you known about this site?
Stranger: very short time ...my classmate told me ...[shes a student! :D more info yay for me!]
You: so your a student still? what do you study? [getting info]
Stranger: my major is english ..
Stranger: im collegue student..
You: oh well so am I
You: do you enjoy your college? [seeing if she is happy]
Stranger: yes .....very ,,,
You: well thats good
Stranger: it is also very beautiful
You: what makes your college so beautiful? [verifying that she is happy]
Stranger: and i like my roommate ...they 'r all my good friends..
Stranger: we always do things together ....
You: Oh well alright, So discribe your friends to me, what are they like? [getting info on her friends, she seemed boring to me at this time]
Stranger: the first we played cards all the year...
Stranger: there are five people in our team ...and i 'll always laugh at someone who is shorter than me...and they laugh at me for i'm fat ..[dingdingding!!! she is fat, and she is also lonely, perfect prey, because she is insecure, and she wants approval]
Stranger: seems very common ..but it is really funny ..when we 'r laughing at others ...but itis friendly ..[she also doesn't think its funny, she hates being called fat, she just clings to whatever she can, even if they talk bad about her]
Stranger: do you love your collegue life ?
You: well yes so far im loving it but I'm done because of summer break, do you love it?
Stranger: we have the summer vocation as well.//
Stranger: so now you'r enjoying your summer break
Stranger: do you have any plan for your future?
You: yes im enjoying my summer break very much. Also, I don't really have a plan for the future yet. I think I might want to become a lawyer. What about you? What would you like to do in the future?[she asked me and I gave a general answer, I wanted to find out her goals to see if she is smart or not]
Stranger: im confused....maybe a office lady...[no high hopes]
Stranger: ^_^but it depend on myself...so i shuold work hard next year...[lazy]
Stranger: talk about the future make me bitter ....[afraid of being on her own]
You: Why don't you like talk about the future?>
Stranger: i have no real aim to do sth ...
Stranger: and .//sometimes im a lazy bones
You: Well you should try to aim high always, that way even if you don't reach where you wanted to be you'll still be close[gaining more trust]
Stranger: what is the short written about crying loudly? [she is very sad, I ended the convo there and just asked for her msn, you could send her anything and she would accept]
You: I don't understand your question
Stranger: thank you for your suggestion //
My comments will be displayed in the puke orange color
You: hey
Stranger: hello stranger
You: well hello
You: so how are you? [This is me trying to get to know basic information, but as you will see she gives it up easily]
Stranger: 20
Stranger: f
Stranger: china
Stranger: ?
You: oh wow whats china like?[the start of finding out where she lives]
Stranger: beautiful
Stranger: very
You: how so? do you live near anything famous?[Looking for an exact location]
Stranger: yes ....west lake ..
Stranger: we call it the heaven ...
Stranger: do you ever heard
You: well know i never heard of it[filler convo, gaining trust]
You: explain it
Stranger: it is a lake ..and it has a long history ..and the natural view is so amazing ...so call it the heaven on earth
You: it must be nice to live so close to something so beautiful then[color=#DAA520][trying to see how close she actually lives to this landmark]
Stranger: yeah ..
Stranger: that's right ...
You: so whats there to do in china?[ the start pf trying to find activities]
Stranger: where you live
You: well I live in new jersey in the united states, nothing special about it[backtracking, you never want to be the one getting asked the questions!]
Stranger: i see///is it the garden state?
Stranger: i see the movie....seems happened in new jersey//
You: yeah they call it the garden state but it isn't pretty like a garden
You: so what do you do for fun?[trying to get the conversation back where I want it]
Stranger: you mean this moment?
Stranger: i like talking to strangers..that's cool ...i can learn alot from sorts of people.. [found out she is lonely][color=#FFFFE0]
You: what types of stuff can you learn? [playing with her mind a bit]
Stranger: sth about their country ...
Stranger: or sth about themself ...that's all attract me ///
Stranger: except smomeone ..who asked me are you horny ^_^
You: LOL
You: well thats very funny lol [I actually found what she said funny lol]
Stranger: LOL
what's that mean?
You: laughing out loud
Stranger: okay.//
Stranger: good/
Stranger: i like make people laugh
You: well thats good, I like to make people laugh also[getting her to trust me more]
You: so how long have you known about this site?
Stranger: very short time ...my classmate told me ...[shes a student! :D more info yay for me!]
You: so your a student still? what do you study? [getting info]
Stranger: my major is english ..
Stranger: im collegue student..
You: oh well so am I
You: do you enjoy your college? [seeing if she is happy]
Stranger: yes .....very ,,,
You: well thats good
Stranger: it is also very beautiful
You: what makes your college so beautiful? [verifying that she is happy]
Stranger: and i like my roommate ...they 'r all my good friends..
Stranger: we always do things together ....
You: Oh well alright, So discribe your friends to me, what are they like? [getting info on her friends, she seemed boring to me at this time]
Stranger: the first we played cards all the year...
Stranger: there are five people in our team ...and i 'll always laugh at someone who is shorter than me...and they laugh at me for i'm fat ..[dingdingding!!! she is fat, and she is also lonely, perfect prey, because she is insecure, and she wants approval]
Stranger: seems very common ..but it is really funny ..when we 'r laughing at others ...but itis friendly ..[she also doesn't think its funny, she hates being called fat, she just clings to whatever she can, even if they talk bad about her]
Stranger: do you love your collegue life ?
You: well yes so far im loving it but I'm done because of summer break, do you love it?
Stranger: we have the summer vocation as well.//
Stranger: so now you'r enjoying your summer break
Stranger: do you have any plan for your future?
You: yes im enjoying my summer break very much. Also, I don't really have a plan for the future yet. I think I might want to become a lawyer. What about you? What would you like to do in the future?[she asked me and I gave a general answer, I wanted to find out her goals to see if she is smart or not]
Stranger: im confused....maybe a office lady...[no high hopes]
Stranger: ^_^but it depend on myself...so i shuold work hard next year...[lazy]
Stranger: talk about the future make me bitter ....[afraid of being on her own]
You: Why don't you like talk about the future?>
Stranger: i have no real aim to do sth ...
Stranger: and .//sometimes im a lazy bones
You: Well you should try to aim high always, that way even if you don't reach where you wanted to be you'll still be close[gaining more trust]
Stranger: what is the short written about crying loudly? [she is very sad, I ended the convo there and just asked for her msn, you could send her anything and she would accept]
You: I don't understand your question
Stranger: thank you for your suggestion //
