Apr 12, 2018 08:36 AM
(This post was last modified: Apr 12, 2018 08:38 AM by Rebellion..)
Yes! I feel stressed most of the time because of them.Especially,being with my father feels like a lot of stress to me.
He hardly cares about me.It fuckin' feels like shit to be with him.It really doesn't feel like living with him.
He might be one of the most negative and pessimist person that I could've ever seen in my life.
He is never committed to what he says and hardly gives a damn about any of the family members.
He boasts about raising me up and the expenses that he is spending to provide me with education and food.
I feel like shit that I have to rely on him for monthly pocket money and for that money I have to listen many times in a month that he has given me that pocket money.
He committed to pay me the laptop money that I bought for myself by making some bucks online but he didn't pay that back and for several other things.
My elder sister has always been given much importance than me.
I always feel negativity coming towards me when I am with him.
What should I do?
I feel really stressed I mean I cannot express it in words maybe.A lot verbal fights takes place between my parents and due to this I am hardly able to focus on some productive work.
Wel education and food is MANDITORY by law so while he boast about it tell him that he has to do that or he can go to jail tbh. But I feel you me and my dad always arguing to but my dad is a dictator ass type person it's either his way or no way. He is anti social asl too
(Apr 12, 2018 08:39 AM)SupremeLV Wrote: Wel education and food is MANDITORY by law so while he boast about it tell him that he has to do that or he can go to jail tbh. But I feel you me and my dad always arguing to but my dad is a dictator ass type person it's either his way or no way. He is anti social asl too
In India,those rules doesn't really imply.
It really feels like shit.It seems as if I am ruining my life.
Any of my extra demands are hardly fulfilled.I feel so negative atm.My father is anti social as well.
(Apr 12, 2018 08:43 AM)Rebellion. Wrote: In India,those rules doesn't really imply.
It really feels like shit.It seems as if I am ruining my life.
Any of my extra demands are hardly fulfilled.I feel so negative atm.My father is anti social as well.
how old are you? And I'm really sorry to hear this.
(Apr 12, 2018 08:45 AM)SupremeLV Wrote: how old are you? And I'm really sorry to hear this.
I am 19.
(Apr 12, 2018 08:53 AM)Rebellion. Wrote: I am 19.
Your best bet honestly is just to leave if the law is like the us you can leave at 18 so you should just leave that's just your best bet honestly.
(Apr 12, 2018 08:55 AM)SupremeLV Wrote: Your best bet honestly is just to leave if the law is like the us you can leave at 18 so you should just leave that's just your best bet honestly.
I was about to go Canada last year but my father didn't let that happen.
Even the person who was going to send me there was my uncle who was about to pay all the expenses of mine so that I can become independent.
I really feel fucked up.
DO NOT DEAL WITH THIS MEMBER
Bhai Tu khud online paisa kama skta hai aur Teri age BHI hogi at least 20+ to Hoga, Bhai tere papa ko lagta hoga Tu nakara hai, unhe paise kama ke dikha na ( online bhot tarike hai). Laundiyon ki Tarah ro mat. Maa baap se jada saga aur koi nhi hai yeh baath gaanth bandh le!
(Apr 12, 2018 08:58 AM)Rebellion. Wrote: I was about to go Canada last year but my father didn't let that happen.
Even the person who was going to send me there was my uncle who was about to pay all the expenses of mine so that I can become independent.
I really feel fucked up.
What is the legal age you are an adult in India? Cuz in the us it's 18 once your an adult you can leave it's over no more talking you can go
Apr 12, 2018 09:06 AM
(This post was last modified: Apr 12, 2018 09:07 AM by Rebellion..)
(Apr 12, 2018 09:01 AM)kookur Wrote: Bhai Tu khud online paisa kama skta hai aur Teri age BHI hogi at least 20+ to Hoga, Bhai tere papa ko lagta hoga Tu nakara hai, unhe paise kama ke dikha na ( online bhot tarike hai). Laundiyon ki Tarah ro mat. Maa baap se jada saga aur koi nhi hai yeh baath gaanth bandh le!
Yar pehle kamata raha hu.Abhi nai kamara atm. 19 ka hu mei bhai. Online kmakr savings ki thi bhai.
Bhai paancho ungliya ghee mei nai hoti.Sabki situations alag hoti hain agr tu shayad meri jgha hota tujhe b realize hota shayad.
(Apr 12, 2018 09:04 AM)SupremeLV Wrote: What is the legal age you are an adult in India? Cuz in the us it's 18 once your an adult you can leave it's over no more talking you can go
18 is the age.But it won't be possible to leave.I am not earning atm.
You are going to have to struggle for a minute but it will be worth it if the situation your in is truly that bad trust me you will be alright.
(Apr 12, 2018 09:11 AM)SupremeLV Wrote: You are going to have to struggle for a minute but it will be worth it if the situation your in is truly that bad trust me you will be alright.
Thanks man! Ill see if I can move abroad.
Things are different here in India.
(Apr 12, 2018 09:13 AM)Rebellion. Wrote: Thanks man! Ill see if I can move abroad.
Things are different here in India.
Alright my boy I wish you the best of luck you can always move in with me :)
I'm very sorry to hear about this OP it sounds like you definitely deal with a lot on the daily basis. My first little bit of advice to you is just remember you are important and you matter you also don't deserve to feel like you are living in a hostile environment. You can either try to talk to him and let him know that you make him feel this way, he may change slightly after knowing or hearing from you directly you think he treats you badly. You could look into getting your passport and visa it might take a little bit of time but if your uncle who was wiling to pay for the expenses the first time.
If you could make it to Canada you could look for work I'm sure a member here could find you job's that are hiring in their/your area. You just got to keep your calm man, I know it's rough feeling like crap especially in your own home however if you can just tolerate it just a little bit longer it will get better and you won't have to deal with it much longer. I wish you the best of luck OP!
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(Apr 12, 2018 01:12 PM)Haseo™ Wrote: I'm very sorry to hear about this OP it sounds like you definitely deal with a lot on the daily basis. My first little bit of advice to you is just remember you are important and you matter you also don't deserve to feel like you are living in a hostile environment. You can either try to talk to him and let him know that you make him feel this way, he may change slightly after knowing or hearing from you directly you think he treats you badly. You could look into getting your passport and visa it might take a little bit of time but if your uncle who was wiling to pay for the expenses the first time.
If you could make it to Canada you could look for work I'm sure a member here could find you job's that are hiring in their/your area. You just got to keep your calm man, I know it's rough feeling like crap especially in your own home however if you can just tolerate it just a little bit longer it will get better and you won't have to deal with it much longer. I wish you the best of luck OP!
I've said him several times but he hasn't changed a little.
Thanks man! :) I try to sit in isolation so that I can avoid talking to him.
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