I'm pretty sure that I don't have ADHD, but there's something really wrong with me.
Jobs I've Had:
Waiter At Two Different Restaurants
Cell Phone Store Manager
Online Tutor
Construction Worker
Landscaper
Thrift Store cashier
Cellphone / Computer software, and hardware repairs.
Amazon FBA
I dislike one night stands, and don't want to complicate my small friendships by adding benefits to them. I get bored of every single girl I date within a month.
I have most of the basic CompTIA certifications, and I have an international language teaching certification. I will soon be getting a CPR certification. I'm fluent in Russian, Spanish, and have started learning Chinese. Oh, and by the way did I mention that I have a guitar coming in the mail just because I saw a guitar fingerstyle cover of believer on Youtube, and wanted to replicate it? I don't think I have ADHD because I wouldn't be able to learn so much without being able to focus. I just have extreme boredom issues.
Now it may sound like I do quite a lot, but my life still feels empty, I have no real friends, no love, no career, and no sense of peace. What the hell is wrong with me. 😭
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Nothing is wrong with you, you're young. Keep on a good path and trust that everything will play out the way you want and it will :)
May 21, 2018 07:06 PM
(This post was last modified: May 21, 2018 07:08 PM by The Pact.)
(May 21, 2018 06:50 PM)Rompow Wrote: I'm pretty sure that I don't have ADHD, but there's something really wrong with me.
Jobs I've Had:
Waiter At Two Different Restaurants
Cell Phone Store Manager
Online Tutor
Construction Worker
Landscaper
Thrift Store cashier
Cellphone / Computer software, and hardware repairs.
Amazon FBA
I dislike one night stands, and don't want to complicate my small friendships by adding benefits to them. I get bored of every single girl I date within a month.
I have most of the basic CompTIA certifications, and I have an international language teaching certification. I will soon be getting a CPR certification. I'm fluent in Russian, Spanish, and have started learning Chinese. Oh, and by the way did I mention that I have a guitar coming in the mail just because I saw a guitar fingerstyle cover of believer on Youtube, and wanted to replicate it? I don't think I have ADHD because I wouldn't be able to learn so much without being able to focus. I just have extreme boredom issues.
Now it may sound like I do quite a lot, but my life still feels empty, I have no real friends, no love, no career, and no sense of peace. What the hell is wrong with me. 😭
Why are you sure it's not ADHD. Before I opened the thread I thought ADHD cause I'm the same (except I was married but my spouse died) but I'm the same with jobs. But Amazon FBI you are in control so you should be able to keep that and it would be a matter of not spending more than you can manage and not giving up and reading more about how to do it.
Oh by the way mate I have a masters degree with an Bplus average in my masters but I DO have severe ADHD we can be obsessive and that's how I did it but it's a different story dealing with employers and ADHD because they won't tolerate it. 😭
We can still learn a lot because we're smart and creative and a subset of us can be obsessive.
With FBA couldn't you conquor boredom by looking at new products. I don't know I haven't done FBA but looking at it.
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(May 21, 2018 06:50 PM)Rompow Wrote: I'm pretty sure that I don't have ADHD, but there's something really wrong with me.
Jobs I've Had:
Waiter At Two Different Restaurants
Cell Phone Store Manager
Online Tutor
Construction Worker
Landscaper
Thrift Store cashier
Cellphone / Computer software, and hardware repairs.
Amazon FBA
I dislike one night stands, and don't want to complicate my small friendships by adding benefits to them. I get bored of every single girl I date within a month.
I have most of the basic CompTIA certifications, and I have an international language teaching certification. I will soon be getting a CPR certification. I'm fluent in Russian, Spanish, and have started learning Chinese. Oh, and by the way did I mention that I have a guitar coming in the mail just because I saw a guitar fingerstyle cover of believer on Youtube, and wanted to replicate it? I don't think I have ADHD because I wouldn't be able to learn so much without being able to focus. I just have extreme boredom issues.
Now it may sound like I do quite a lot, but my life still feels empty, I have no real friends, no love, no career, and no sense of peace. What the hell is wrong with me. 😭
PM me contact details OP, I can relate very very closely. lol
Keep living life, you will find the right path eventually..life is about making millions of risks and mistakes. Learn from your mistakes and live through the risks. If you need someone to talk to PM me anytime Op
Life sometimes takes time to course longer for you than others. Just keep working hard and stay on track.
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(May 21, 2018 06:56 PM)Who Soup Wrote: Nothing is wrong with you, you're young. Keep on a good path and trust that everything will play out the way you want and it will :)
I agree it takes awhile to figure out your purpose everyone goes at there own pace
Find passion for something, even if it's going to the gym or going out for some fun activity once a week, something to look forward to.
Self-improvement is all about having determination and a clear goal; and don't get overwhelmed - one step at a time.
Identify the things about yourself that need to be changed and work on them one by one. Also it seems you may be depressed, SSRI's are honestly not the worst idea even though they catch a bad wrap from the media.
I wish you the best of luck, life is a struggle; lots of ups and downs. Remember there will always be another up. <3
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Way I see it, you're just too smart, and you're unhappy around people who are not as smart as you.
Everyone isn't perfect and we aren't all the same.
Smarter people are often more sadder because the smaller things don't phase them or seem fun.
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(May 21, 2018 06:50 PM)Rompow Wrote: I'm pretty sure that I don't have ADHD, but there's something really wrong with me.
Jobs I've Had:
Waiter At Two Different Restaurants
Cell Phone Store Manager
Online Tutor
Construction Worker
Landscaper
Thrift Store cashier
Cellphone / Computer software, and hardware repairs.
Amazon FBA
I dislike one night stands, and don't want to complicate my small friendships by adding benefits to them. I get bored of every single girl I date within a month.
I have most of the basic CompTIA certifications, and I have an international language teaching certification. I will soon be getting a CPR certification. I'm fluent in Russian, Spanish, and have started learning Chinese. Oh, and by the way did I mention that I have a guitar coming in the mail just because I saw a guitar fingerstyle cover of believer on Youtube, and wanted to replicate it? I don't think I have ADHD because I wouldn't be able to learn so much without being able to focus. I just have extreme boredom issues.
Now it may sound like I do quite a lot, but my life still feels empty, I have no real friends, no love, no career, and no sense of peace. What the hell is wrong with me. 😭
I got a question to ask.
Do you spend a lot of time on your phone, when you go out to events do you constantly take photos and videos. When you are home what do you find youself doing? Do you partake in any sports? are you a Smoker?
(May 21, 2018 09:38 PM)Pronouncer Wrote: I got a question to ask.
Do you spend a lot of time on your phone, when you go out to events do you constantly take photos and videos. When you are home what do you find youself doing? Do you partake in any sports? are you a Smoker?
I want to answer because I want to see where this goes. No, when I'm out at events I hate being on my phone and I hate it when other people are on their phone because it ruins the experience. I either play video games or fuck around with python. I play multiple adult league sports. I smoke a lot.
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(May 21, 2018 11:42 PM)Nicᴋ Wrote: I want to answer because I want to see where this goes. No, when I'm out at events I hate being on my phone and I hate it when other people are on their phone because it ruins the experience. I either play video games or fuck around with python. I play multiple adult league sports. I smoke a lot.
I was talking about OP I'm trying to get an understanding about him, to try and see what he is doing wrong. But for you are you in a similar situation? Lacking a social life etc? If so Pm me some details I'll see what advice I can give you
Maybe it's best to talk to one of the support groups here on HF, such as the Samaritans group.
May 22, 2018 08:40 AM
(This post was last modified: May 22, 2018 09:01 AM by Rompow.)
(May 21, 2018 09:38 PM)Pronouncer Wrote: I got a question to ask.
Do you spend a lot of time on your phone, when you go out to events do you constantly take photos and videos. When you are home what do you find youself doing? Do you partake in any sports? are you a Smoker?
No to the phone, I go through those at an abnormal rate as well. Although it's less out of boredom, and more I because I tend to buy them cheap, and resale them before I can even get attached to one. The only electronic that has remained consistent with me is a $20 MP3 player. I did do YouTube videos a year ago, but stopped because I sold my Xbox One, and game recorder. At home I find myself reading a lot of Fan-Faction, and doing MMA workouts as of lately.
(My Calibre Ebook library has 5000+ books that I've finished reading)
(May 21, 2018 07:06 PM)The Pact Wrote: Why are you sure it's not ADHD. Before I opened the thread I thought ADHD cause I'm the same (except I was married but my spouse died) but I'm the same with jobs. But Amazon FBI you are in control so you should be able to keep that and it would be a matter of not spending more than you can manage and not giving up and reading more about how to do it.
Oh by the way mate I have a masters degree with an Bplus average in my masters but I DO have severe ADHD we can be obsessive and that's how I did it but it's a different story dealing with employers and ADHD because they won't tolerate it. 😭
We can still learn a lot because we're smart and creative and a subset of us can be obsessive.
With FBA couldn't you conquor boredom by looking at new products. I don't know I haven't done FBA but looking at it.
Oh wow, I couldn't do that. I had to switch to online school just to be able to graduate because I was missing too many school days, and was pretty much a walking bored zombie at school. This guy will not be stepping foot into any college, certifications, and jobs through networking is my way of life. Amazon FBA does provide a bit of variety, but it can also become a routine. I will eventually have to get back into it though because I have a large closet room full of goods that I need to sort through, and ship out.
(May 22, 2018 08:40 AM)Rompow Wrote: No to the phone, I go through those at an abnormal rate as well. Although it's less out of boredom, and more I because I tend to buy them cheap, and resale them before I can even get attached to one. The only electronic that has remained consistent with me is a $20 MP3 player. I did do YouTube videos a year ago, but stopped because I sold my Xbox One, and game recorder. At home I find myself reading a lot of Fan-Faction, and doing MMA workouts as of lately.
(My Calibre Ebook library has 5000+ books that I've finished reading)
Do a backflip and you should be alright.
I'm being serious. Try new things that you think you may not like. You'll develop yourself.
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