[mawrek]

i live in a europe country where the average salary is $200-300/month.

my parents took a bank credit loan somewhere in 2009. they loaned about $175,000 USD and put the whole house in exchange in case they can't pay.

literally less than a year, they fucked up and can't pay anymore, so they are struggling to pay it since 2009.

the whole house is now on the edge to be lost.

now they have to pay $1500/month until the year 2020.

in 2017 they went completely broke. they had $0.2 in their pockets just for food which is the reason i joined this site, to find the fastest way to earn money on any way i could find.

i found ewhoring. took me 11 days to accept to become an immoral person, but i had no choice. on 12th day i started earning.

since i joined here, june/july 2017, i "worked", ewhored, 8-12 hours every day and earned hundreds of dollars from that just to burn it on their monthly debt.

since they can't afford $1500/month anymore, they extended $600/month but until the year 2023.

it's 2018 right now. i have to pay $600/month until the year 2023.

in 2017 i paid them july, august, september, october, november, december | (6)
in 2018 i paid them january, february, march, april, may (5)

6*5 = 30*600 = $18,000 is the approximate total amount i paid, and now i am finally completely broke, just like them.

ewhoring fucked up my personality. a few months ago i decided to stop doing this because it's horrible and immoral and dumb.

now they think i dont want to pay them anymore. i told them i dont have any more money. i have to study for college (computer science) and i have no time. they think im hiding money from them. they don't believe i dont have money and are mad at me.

i'm 21. if i continue ewhoring until the end of this year, because i have to nolife 8-12 hours a day, i'll fail a year in college and fuck up my future.

if they don't pay $600 every month, we lose the house and become homeless.

when i told them i'll move out and live by myself because of this, they got offended saying "what did we do to deserve this?"

on the second hand, what problem would moving out solve? i would have to be paying for food, bills, etc, i'll just be wasting more money while their debt would still be unsolved.

what am i supposed to do?

[daymon]

Their debt isn't your issue. Do whatevers best for your own personal well-being.

[Condoms]

Change your identity, and get a new house?

[AlwaysAwesome]

Honestly sounds like they are just selfish people. They took a debt that they knew they possibly couldn’t repay and instead of working harder and longer to correct their fuck ups, they have their son hussling his ass off to pay off their debt. Now when you don’t want to pay they bring money hungry af. I say don’t pay them a fucking penny and let them pay off their own debt. Their inability to make smart decisions doesn’t warrant a hassle for you. It isn’t your problem and it isn’t your fuck up. Go live on your own man honestly you’ll be spending roughly that money on your own place but it’s your place and nobody can bother you in it.
(Also btw is 6+5 not 6*5, you paid a total of 11 months not 30 btw math is slightly off)

[SIM-1097664]

Their debt isn't your issue. Do whatevers best for your own personal well-being.

This. Your parents debt is not your problem. Move the fuck out, you can live on less than $600 a month, rent with friends, eat cheap, don't splurge on dumb shit.

[Juffar]

Your parents is the issue here. Get your own place.

[HIGH_JAX]

Whatever you want to hear is what I recommend you doing. If you want to leave your parents go for it. If you want to help your parents go for it. You know what is best for you.

[Compulsive]

Use the e-whoring money to start your future.

[CyberStrike]

I kinda agree with everyone, after really thinking about it, your parents took on a debt which was initially untenable for them to make good on not to mention how things go till 2020 or 2023. While some parents expect help from their children, and that is normal, yet terrible judgement on their part not to mention the high price of completing this loan makes it a really moot point to try like they have to realize that. I have an odd thought, that they figured that all this could happen they knew all this was going to happen and were okay with this exact circumstance.

[Manks]

So your parents take a loan they cant pay for, and now its up to you to fix it?
Move out, and emancipate them before it actually does become your burden

[SeekerOfPandora]

Something is strange. In your country average salary is 300$ and your parents got 175K loan to be paid in 10 years? So your parents didnt earn so little, your parents dont work anymore?
If you think they wasted money in silly way and dont do the enough to earn more, just leave home and start fresh.

[Amp]

Seems like all they're doing is playing the victim card. It's not your responsibility to pay for their expenses.

[SIM-2501407]

Their debt isn't your issue. Do whatevers best for your own personal well-being.

Exactly. You have to seek your own happiness, and not let their attempts of guilt change your future.

[Kash Only]

What to do?

I'll tell you what to do:



- You are 20/21 years old, meaning in Europe you are legally an ADULT.
- Your parents are guess what, ADULTS.
- You helped them A LOT, and they don't respect that.
- Move out, because you are an ADULT and you have your own life to take care of.


Some parents don't realize how great their kids are, sorry to hear this, but i think your parents are using you a little bit, it's their own shit. You helped them, now when you are broke, they are mad on you.

Just imagine what would they do to you if you would be in their situation, they would give you an 'i told you so life lection'. In my opinion, if i would really be in the asshole mood, i'd sit them down and teach them a lesson and ask them why the fuck did they go in such a huge debt especially in Europe, where the average salary is like, $1k (even much lower in some countries).

[ZeroDay™]

Focus on yourself and graduate. You will be able to get a good job afterwards, and if you still feel like you need to help your parents out you will have the means to do so with a steady job. But in the end it is their fault that they borrowed more money than they could pay back, they should be the ones working to fix it.