[Roberto Scorpius Malfoy]

My cousin lost his driver's license due to driving and having drugs in his blod.

So in the past, he has needed help with getting his ass to different places and ppl have to drive him, so basically my cousin is this type of a guy that you can make a lot of things for but somehow when he doesn't get as he wants he gets mad and forget all good things you have done for him.

He invested in mining rigs and I built everything for him and made the setup and try to fix the error, I have been driving 1 hour to a place, suddenly we got an error, and to solve that error he needs to pay money to upgrade the internet, and he doesn't want to do it because it's too expensive and he blames me now for not being able to mine (didn't appreciate what I did for him even though he himself has said building minings rigs and shit is annoying I feel you)


Anyways we fought yesterday because these two latest days he has driving me crazy, two days ago I called him and asked u wanna go out to eat something? He said yes I had another friend of ours with me so as soon he step into the car he said he drives me to this destination, and after that another destination because he wanted to meet with some ppl and sell them some shit I was pissed off because I told him when u go out and have things to do please sort them out yourself, he got mad and told me never call me again, etc..

The next day he called me and said should we go out and eat something, I said yes so I offered to pick him uip he said no I will walk to you, he came and as soon as we stepped into the car we were supposed to go and eat he said drive me to this destination, I got a little bit mad but I was not saying anything, he gets a call another friend of ours says hey u were supposed to pick me up to where are u Im oustide, he said well go inside we are going to meet with a guy quickly, the guy went nuts so we decided to turn around the car and pick him up, after that, we went to his guy, and we ate there, we stepped into the car now he has another guy to meet up with and its 40 minutes away, I was driving there and in the middle of everything I told him to look I told you went you go out and do these kinds of things dont involve me and I hate it when you are in a call with me and pretend that you have nothing to do and as soon as I pick you up you pretend that ppl started to contact you from nowhere and you have things to do.

He got mad and said you know what drop me outside (the friend we picked up let's call him Rob) He said dropped me outside robs car I don't want your help, you have started to become a pussy I will never ask for your help etc.. He said I fucking paid for your food and I used to pick you and drop you outside your house when you didn't have a driver's license etc..

I said hey I have been paying for your food as well sometimes so stop pretending you are the only one, and also when you used to have a driver license I never asked you to drop me anywhere I always loved to walk and listen to music, and also when I had things to do I used to take the train and sort it out not like you asking for favor multiple times a week and as soon as I say no you forget all good things I have done.


Also when we argue he always intends to bring up good things he has done for me which is so weird to listen to because nothing makes sense, like things with "I paid for your food" The guy literally forgets that he borrowed money from me and I told him I need the money back urgently within a few days he gambled away everything...

He is in a poor situation and he thinks because of that everyone owes him help, when I was deep in the shit I never asked for anyones help.

So my question is was I too hard doing it to him or not?

[the_bane]

i think he's in some kind of stress (other than your situation), maybe arrange a checkup for him?

[SIM-5161767]

No, you weren't hard on him. Let him take the hard pill and realize his behavior is wrong. You treated him properly and the reality is no one is owed help if the person won't be straight forward. He should have asked you if it's ok if we can do some earrings. If you said no then that was the answer. If he hid this to just use your ass to drive him around places then the issue is with him.

[jmark7]

I think you should give him some time. as he gets in worst situation like you said, he will know your help and support is what he is missing the most.

[Luffy-_-]

Damn bro my cousin or not i would stay away from these kinds of people

[Erfhos]

sad to hear it robert, hope you are doing good now

[r3byte]

He's definitely taking advantage of the driving situation, more so that your related it gives them (family) more entitlement, which in most cases is ok but it's not when you rub it in there faces. Family should look out for family, regardless of time, cost or effort.

If one person takes advantage of this or flaunts it, stop yourself from doing as much as they have a different view on what they give to what they get. In time they either learn from this or don't.

Also, with the fact of you being cousins, sit and have a talk with him. Somewhat of an ultimatum, offer him the chance to drop all the other shit and friend time and focus more on working with, the mining setup or/and other projects!

Your more powerful together, especially working together rather than fighting and competing/focusing on others who arn't as close in your circle.
If they choose not too that's there decision, don't feel bad for avoiding situations or doing less after this, we all have the same 24hours.

Some don't have the blessing to be carried forever