I feel obligated to write this because it is so important and I want everyone who reads this to really soak everything in. I needed tell somebody this because it's been on my mind for so long.
I am 16 years old and I recently lost my father to cancer a little over two months ago. It was hard.. It's still hard. I watched him take his last breath and his eyes close. Words cannot describe how I feel and what I'd do to see his face or talk to the man one last time. However, I am very thankful for having a therapist at my side during his last days. The day before my father passed was one of the most emotional days of my life and I don't think I'll ever forget it. It was the time where I knew it would just be me and him and no other soul between us during this talk. I told him how much I loved him, how I held him responsible for raising such a good son, that I was headed in the right path, and that I was going to be great. I knew he was listening because he tried to get up (he often stood up as a sign he was still strong and fighting) I remember he couldn't and he fell asleep after that because of how much energy it took out of him. But it was that moment I communicated to him, and he responded. It was our last interaction I'd ever have with my father and I am extremely thankful for it. I want to tell you that once your parents are gone, they are gone. You will never see them again in your lifetime. Please, I encourage you to tell your mom you love her. Tell your father you love him. Send them a text or get them something to show your appreciation because one day you won't be able to. Family is one of the most important things in life and if you have family that loves you then you are blessed.
Stay strong man,
My condolances.
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That's deep my bro ;(
you make me sad
Dec 14, 2016 09:40 AM
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A lot of people don't realize this until it is too late. I try to tell my parents I love them every day no matter what the current situation between us is. I'm extremely sorry for your loss, keep your head up brother.
Sorry for your loss bro, these were some really deep words and it hit me right in the feels. You are right, family is something you need to cherish while it's there, keep your head up.
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I lost both of my parents very suddenly when I was your age.
Never got to say goodbye.
Never told them I loved them.
You never really know what you've got until the day you don't.
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(Dec 14, 2016 09:33 AM)eComrade Wrote: I feel obligated to write this because it is so important and I want everyone who reads this to really soak everything in. I needed tell somebody this because it's been on my mind for so long.
I am 16 years old and I recently lost my father to cancer a little over two months ago. It was hard.. It's still hard. I watched him take his last breath and his eyes close. Words cannot describe how I feel and what I'd do to see his face or talk to the man one last time. However, I am very thankful for having a therapist at my side during his last days. The day before my father passed was one of the most emotional days of my life and I don't think I'll ever forget it. It was the time where I knew it would just be me and him and no other soul between us during this talk. I told him how much I loved him, how I held him responsible for raising such a good son, that I was headed in the right path, and that I was going to be great. I knew he was listening because he tried to get up (he often stood up as a sign he was still strong and fighting) I remember he couldn't and he fell asleep after that because of how much energy it took out of him. But it was that moment I communicated to him, and he responded. It was our last interaction I'd ever have with my father and I am extremely thankful for it. I want to tell you that once your parents are gone, they are gone. You will never see them again in your lifetime. Please, I encourage you to tell your mom you love her. Tell your father you love him. Send them a text or get them something to show your appreciation because one day you won't be able to. Family is one of the most important things in life and if you have family that loves you then you are blessed.
come on bro you 16 and you on coomputer forum? go kick some foot ball
(Feb 1, 2018 04:10 AM)Account of the Gods Wrote: come on bro you 16 and you on coomputer forum? go kick some foot ball
Shut the fuck up and die in agony, you fucking asshole.
Stay strong OP, loss of a loved one is the worst, but even though that life goes on and I am sure your father wants you
to be happy.
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(Feb 1, 2018 04:14 AM)Tsukiri Wrote: Shut the fuck up and die in agony, you fucking asshole.
Stay strong OP, loss of a loved one is the worst, but even though that life goes on and I am sure your father wants you
to be happy.
I am just saying childhood wont come back, no need to call me names, ugh
Whats the point of gravedigging?
Kind of a sad thread too damn
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(Feb 1, 2018 04:19 AM)Caliban Wrote: Whats the point of gravedigging?
Kind of a sad thread too damn
Oh sorry my bad. But It was below in "related threads" I thought its new lol
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My condolances man.
I believe you're right, I told my parents one time that I loved them, we're really not accostomed to say this where I live but I saw that they were touched and I felt good that I showed just a bit of appreciation in that way. Keep being strong.
(Feb 1, 2018 04:10 AM)Account of the Gods Wrote: come on bro you 16 and you on coomputer forum? go kick some foot ball
What the fuck do you think teenagers do all 24/7. You think they fucking kick a foot ball all day every day? NO, people like to spend their time how they fucking want to. I'm 17 and I spend half my time on the computer when I'm home. Guess what the other half is, youtube and netflix. Which is what more than half of teens this generation do and I'm happy to be one of them. Go grave dig some other post asshole
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(Feb 1, 2018 04:22 PM)Richard Hendricks Wrote: What the fuck do you think teenagers do all 24/7. You think they fucking kick a foot ball all day every day? NO, people like to spend their time how they fucking want to. I'm 17 and I spend half my time on the computer when I'm home. Guess what the other half is, youtube and netflix. Which is what more than half of teens this generation do and I'm happy to be one of them. Go grave dig some other post asshole
Your post is dumb. You go all mad at me just to find an excuse to neg me. I am done speaking with you. Bye. Also congratz spending whole day on computer
Feb 1, 2018 04:29 PM
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(Feb 1, 2018 04:27 PM)Account of the Gods Wrote: Your post is dumb. You go all mad at me just to find an excuse to neg me. I am done speaking with you. Bye. Also congratz spending whole day on computer
My post is dumb? You type and act like a fucking 12 year old.
Sorry for loss OP. Lost a parent at young age aswell.
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