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Can't Keep A Job-Girlfriend-Or Hobby Whats Wrong With Me

None of those jobs even seem worth keeping. I don't think that's the issue.
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(May 22, 2018 09:19 AM)Amp Wrote:  None of those jobs even seem worth keeping. I don't think that's the issue.

I took those jobs for the variety. I know that I could land a job at a large software company, but working for 9-5 on software that doesn't interest me just isn't my thing. In a few years I will be traveling, and teaching internationally. I'm just saving up as much as I can first, and building up my skills. I will also need to land a job with a company that will pay for the more expensive hacking certifications that I need to get so that when I get bored of teaching I can instead be a traveling penetration tester, but that's a couple years out as well.
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i have never in my life related to a post so fucking much

i am mentally unable to remain with the same thing for longer than a couple months (at a push!)
every single girlfriend i've had i haven't been able to remain with, and i dont know why because when i look back nothing was wrong and i couldve/shouldve stayed
Hey, bro, I think you should look for something that you are really interested in, such as desires, hobbies and so on
(May 21, 2018 06:50 PM)Rompow Wrote:  I'm pretty sure that I don't have ADHD, but there's something really wrong with me.
Jobs I've Had:
Waiter At Two Different Restaurants
Cell Phone Store Manager
Online Tutor
Construction Worker
Landscaper
Thrift Store cashier
Cellphone / Computer software, and hardware repairs.
Amazon FBA

I dislike one night stands, and don't want to complicate my small friendships by adding benefits to them. I get bored of every single girl I date within a month.
I have most of the basic CompTIA certifications, and I have an international language teaching certification. I will soon be getting a CPR certification. I'm fluent in Russian, Spanish, and have started learning Chinese. Oh, and by the way did I mention that I have a guitar coming in the mail just because I saw a guitar fingerstyle cover of believer on Youtube, and wanted to replicate it? I don't think I have ADHD because I wouldn't be able to learn so much without being able to focus. I just have extreme boredom issues.

Now it may sound like I do quite a lot, but my life still feels empty, I have no real friends, no love, no career, and no sense of peace. What the hell is wrong with me.  😭

Just keep dating new girls till u find 1 u don't get bored of?
(May 22, 2018 10:52 AM)SΤΣλLΤΗ Wrote:  Just keep dating new girls till u find 1 u don't get bored of?

Man, I'm not a Playboy by any means yet by the time that happens I will have slept with far too many women. I know that just because you date someone doesn't mean you have to sleep with them, but it's just how I try to progress the relationship. I would be put off by a woman who has slept with too many men so I really don't want to be a hypocrite.
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I think you need to introduce Anime into your life at this point, it makes everything better! Also it seems to be that you just can't set your mind on one thing and stick with it, you're all over the place. Anyways good luck.
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(May 22, 2018 11:47 AM)Wоlf Wrote:  I think you need to introduce Anime into your life at this point, it makes everything better! Also it seems to be that you just can't set your mind on one thing and stick with it, you're all over the place. Anyways good luck.

Anime pisses me off, that's why I turned to fan-fiction. I got into Naruto, and Highchool DXD, and was upset to see that no matter how shitty of a person Sasuke was he still got rewarded over, and over again. Don't even get me started on Issei because I hate his character. Oh yeah, and screw Jaune Arc too.
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Not trying to be mean, but your standards might be too high, or you look like Shrek in human form.
(May 22, 2018 01:16 PM)imamurloc Wrote:  Not trying to be mean, but your standards might be too high, or you look like Shrek in human form.

I've been referred to as a pretty boy. I'm not particularly happy about it, but at least it's a step better than cute. I will one day be only referred to as handsome!
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You just seem like you enjoy variation.
It's a normal thing to have.
I don't "suffer" from it myself though. I've been with ONE girl.
Have had TWO jobs and sticked by one because the last job I had was working in a restaurant and it was sold.
What I see is a lack of focus and dedication... like every HF member it's no wonder they find it to be a norm. You have room to play around up to 24 but after that if you don't have your mind set towards something you're only going to end up a failure.
If you can learn a language you definitely don't have ADD/ADHD.
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Life is like soup, everyone eats it but experience it differently.
You are adding more ingredients to your soup right now, and one day a certain interesting person will try to taste your soup.
time to bust out the easel and be an artist


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