[QuickPack0981]

So many people in school or online-forums [mostly people around 10 to 25] and so on just laughs at me or don't take me serious, I'm not able to determine why is that...
I would consider myself as an anxious person because all of that but I just can't talk with anyone other than adults that are 35+ or just introverts and people that are calm.

There is no way, talking to an extrovert or someone with high self-esteem. Those people just always laugh at me and never respect my opinions. I'm not able to perceive why is that happening and daily day asking myself, maybe I'm just stupid, non-understanding person with iq below 80. This is really annoying.

When I ask what is going on and why they are laughing, they are not able to answer or do answer something like "because of what you've just said" but I see nothing wrong with what I've just said and when i ask what's wrong with what I've just said a response comes " doesn't matter" or "ignore that hahahaah". And stupid stuff like that.

It's really obnoxious, anyone has ever gone through this part? Is it normal?

[Controlled]

So many people in school or online-forums [mostly people around 10 to 25] and so on just laughs at me or don't take me serious, I'm not able to determine why is that...
I would consider myself as an anxious person because all of that but I just can't talk with anyone other than adults that are 35+ or just introverts and people that are calm.

There is no way, talking to an extrovert or someone with high self-esteem. Those people just always laugh at me and never respect my opinions. I'm not able to perceive why is that happening and daily day asking myself, maybe I'm just stupid, non-understanding person with iq below 80. This is really annoying.

When I ask what is going on and why they are laughing, they are not able to answer or do answer something like "because of what you've just said" but I see nothing wrong with what I've just said and when i ask what's wrong with what I've just said a response comes " doesn't matter" or "ignore that hahahaah". And stupid stuff like that.

It's really obnoxious, anyone has ever gone through this part? Is it normal?

I feel like this is not really articulated the way you thought it was. I am confused, elaborate a little more on the issue please?

[DNA]

Rant? I expected some tenancy dispute when I clicked this thread lol

[lust]

It's all about body language. If you talk in a shy and introverted way, you're going to get shit on. Try saying it with your chest

[Popstar]

I can tell by the way you type you're kind of awkward and maybe a bit on the spectrum brother

[Slicky]

just be yourself annd if people don't like it fuck them.

[QuickPack0981]

I feel like this is not really articulated the way you thought it was. I am confused, elaborate a little more on the issue please?

I hard times expressing myself.
I'm sorry, very shortly most people just don't take me so serious.

Rant? I expected some tenancy dispute when I clicked this thread lol

Yes, I'm sorry.

It's all about body language. If you talk in a shy and introverted way, you're going to get Clay Davis on. Try saying it with your chest

I don't think I talk in a shy and introverted way.
I'm kind of a person that if he don't like something, he just say it.

I can tell by the way you type you're kind of awkward and maybe a bit on the spectrum brother

How were you able to determine that by the way I type? What are the differences between you and me? I have hard times expressing myself and combined that English is not my native languages, it doesn't make it easier.

Thank you.

[lust]

I don't think I talk in a shy and introverted way.
I'm kind of a person that if he don't like something, he just say it.

You'd be surprised how many people hate you for that. Being bluntly honest can deter people. Kind of reminds me of the dude from Rick and Morty (I think) that just bashes people. People don't like being criticized by strangers. They don't have any obligation to prove anything to you.

[QuickPack0981]

You'd be surprised how many people hate you for that. Being bluntly honest can deter people. Kind of reminds me of the dude from Rick and Morty (I think) that just bashes people. People don't like being criticized by strangers. They don't have any obligation to prove anything to you.

I wouldn't consider myself as someone who criticise strangers but if I know something is not right or I don't agree with that, I say like "this is bullshit and I don't agree with it" the person next to me start laughing. Example no2 in my thread.

On the other-side, I also feel like being (bullied?) the one that most people makes fun of online. Now I don't know if this is because I talk to weird people or because of this is what my brain only remember and the good things goes away.

People usually only complain and because when something is alright, there is nothing to say. So I don't know, maybe I see their negative perspective multiplied in some way.

This eventually learned me shit in the real life and adult world but eventually I'm scared of people cause I'm worried they gonna backstab me as always.
I was already going through this hell in elementary school when I was 9, yeah, I still don't know why has this started happening but it basically started and then I had this big sticker on my forehead I guess.

I'm also person that usually never speaks but if he speaks he speaks a lot.
But eventually, once I've changed school and workplace, I literally never spoken with anyone. I had no need to talk with anyone, they were cool with me, I was cool with them. No reason to socialise but each time I said something they started laughing. Now everyone understood that differently, also one starts laughing and the others join him.

Eventually, I asked why is that, they've said (cause you are always dead quiet and non-talking and when you speak you always say something crazy or in the most unexpected moment). But this was just one case which I settled down with them.

I hope you do understand and sorry if my post is too long.

[eipie]

I try not to value peoples' opinions that do not give a fuck about me. Most people are searching for excitement, happiness, money, the feeling of being apart of something bigger than themselves. There are very few people outside of my family that I honestly know are genuine. If you get the feeling that people are not taking you serious, then they do not deserve your time. I apologize if this sounds like a rant, but I have thought a lot about this.

[Natas]

You might have anexity like me or need better friends.

[Mr. Corleone]

From my own experience, I've noticed that people who behave in a non-conformist way in social situations,
typically have either low social realization (in which case they don't even realize that they're being awkward or being different),
or are people with a understanding of the social laws of our modern society but don't adhere to it simply because they
feel or believe that they do not have to act accordingly (conform) to it.

I can go with the cliche and repeat; 'Be yourself, you'll find people who are on the same wavelength.'
But then again, you're living off borrowed time, and you can die before that happens.

Point being: You're always gonna stress about something. Might as well decide not to give a fuck about anything and anybody.

[Rsynced]

Most people don't give a fuck about others, the sooner you learn to accept this and start ignoring shitty people the better your life will get.

[Zero]

Try to find 1 or 2 friends. It'll make your whole world better and also easier to ignore other people's bad sayings.

[Psilocybe]

Not stupid, but foolish. If you let your own assumptions of other people influence the way you do things, all you're doing is giving up your own individualism. Be real with yourself; what are other people's judgements, good or bad, going to do? Tip of advice - you don't need validation from others in order to do great things or be positive.