If people were born with warning labels stamped on them, what would yours say today?
Mine would probably say talks too much, annoyingly positive, and a bleeding heart lol. What would yours say?
"Cares way too much about the wrong types of things."
(Mar 8, 2021 08:11 PM)Phobix Wrote: "Cares way too much about the wrong types of things."
I hear that. Does it still affect you as bad or have you found a coping mechanism?
(Mar 8, 2021 08:31 PM)Verethragna Wrote: I hear that. Does it still affect you as bad or have you found a coping mechanism?
You just gotta remind yourself of what is really important. Sometimes I catch myself worrying about things that ultimately will not affect my end goals but instead I prioritize them because in the moment they seem so important.
When that happens, you need to take a step back and analyze the whole situation again top to bottom, whole picture 100%. By that I mean, where do you want to be 10 years from now? 15? 20?
(Mar 8, 2021 08:35 PM)Phobix Wrote: You just gotta remind yourself of what is really important. Sometimes I catch myself worrying about things that ultimately will not affect my end goals but instead I prioritize them because in the moment they seem so important.
When that happens, you need to take a step back and analyze the whole situation again top to bottom, whole picture 100%. By that I mean, where do you want to be 10 years from now? 15? 20?
100%! I'm glad you were able to find a system that works for you! That's how I handle it as well. Although that works, do you ever feel like it's too much and you might explode from it all? Recently I've been doing more journaling and meditation and I've found that it helps with those overwhelming feelings sometimes. It could just be me tho. I'm a strange bird lol.
(Mar 8, 2021 08:53 PM)James Wrote: "great at complaining about everything"
🤣 Well if you're going to do something at least be great at it lol.
"lazy, annoying and doesn't stay in contact with others"
It's hard for me to stay in touch with people I don't meet on a daily basis (or happen to catch online)
(Mar 8, 2021 10:47 PM)Juoku Wrote: "lazy, annoying and doesn't stay in contact with others"
It's hard for me to stay in touch with people I don't meet on a daily basis (or happen to catch online)
I'm the worst about staying in contact with people also. I definitely understand life gets in the way, and we all can be lazy sometimes! Actually, I was reading a study a while ago saying that the mind will procrastinate at times to shield itself from certain things. So don't be too hard on yourself. Our brains need a break every once and a while 😁
DO NOT DEAL WITH THIS MEMBER
Mine would be "Smoke too much weed."
(Mar 9, 2021 08:38 AM)Dopamine Wrote: Mine would be "Smoke too much weed."
I don't need a label for that. You can smell me coming a mile away 🤣
"Will get very annoying very fast" apparently lol
(Mar 9, 2021 09:09 AM)Koyote Wrote: "Will get very annoying very fast" apparently lol
🤣 I can definitely relate. I annoy myself sometimes lol
(Mar 9, 2021 08:22 AM)Verethragna Wrote: I'm the worst about staying in contact with people also. I definitely understand life gets in the way, and we all can be lazy sometimes! Actually, I was reading a study a while ago saying that the mind will procrastinate at times to shield itself from certain things. So don't be too hard on yourself. Our brains need a break every once and a while 😁
I need to read that study to see how to make it stop lol
I sometimes procrastinate too much but I'm working on it
(Mar 9, 2021 10:44 AM)Juoku Wrote: I need to read that study to see how to make it stop lol
I sometimes procrastinate too much but I'm working on it
🤣 Me too. In fact, I'm procrastinating as we speak lol. One thing I find that helps is I set little alarms throughout the day to spur me into getting some work done. Maybe one day I'll think of something more effective lol
(Mar 9, 2021 10:48 AM)Verethragna Wrote: 🤣 Me too. In fact, I'm procrastinating as we speak lol. One thing I find that helps is I set little alarms throughout the day to spur me into getting some work done. Maybe one day I'll think of something more effective lol
Tried that, I just turned it off and did nothing about it lol
I tried downloading an app called Habitca which turns chores and your normal To Do list into a game where you get EXP n such, it's pretty fun and helps in a way
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