[f o r m i d a b l e]

Dude, more men especially married suddenly approach me with subtle gayness. When I'm at a camp laundry, there was a meaningless encounter. One asked for my number at a resort. Another said we should attend a restaurant and watch my favorite documentaries. I don't carry any gay vibes. It's like they think or want me to be queer, or I'm in a parallel universe or some shit. Does this happen often?

I wouldn't consider myself a chick magnet (as I would like), but ladies are more discreet signs to me.

[Beherit]

Married men? Maybe, they're just looking for friends.

[f0rmations]

I've had this all my life, just not with gay married men. ALL men. I've even had tons of women (coworkers, etc) thinking I'm gay. I hate it because if they think I'm gay, that means they instantly are not attracted to me so it's like I'm instantly handicapped.

[Hungry4Knowledge]

I've had this all my life, just not with gay married men. ALL men. I've even had tons of women (coworkers, etc) thinking I'm gay. I hate it because if they think I'm gay, that means they instantly are not attracted to me so it's like I'm instantly handicapped.

You have to start talking more about football.....obviously not to the ladies, but it's beneficial if they hear it.
You know, we gays don't like football.

[Sam]

From what I understand you could actually be gay but you haven't realised it yet. You need to understand your attractions and feelings and it's okay to explore and discover what feels right for you.

OP it is ok to be gay we are here for you.

[Flan.]

It sounds like you're experiencing some strange encounters with men approaching you with subtle gayness. It could just be a coincidence, but if it's happening frequently, maybe there's something about your demeanor that is attracting these advances. Have you tried addressing the situation directly with these men to see where they're coming from?

[f o r m i d a b l e]

From what I understand you could actually be gay but you haven't realised it yet. You need to understand your attractions and feelings and it's okay to explore and discover what feels right for you.

OP it is ok to be gay we are here for you.

I'm not gay, and I know myself.

It sounds like you're experiencing some strange encounters with men approaching you with subtle gayness. It could just be a coincidence, but if it's happening frequently, maybe there's something about your demeanor that is attracting these advances. Have you tried addressing the situation directly with these men to see where they're coming from?

Sometimes it is straightforward like asking me if I'm straight on IG. I don't have any gay attributes, that's why my situation is weird, so I wonder if it happens to others. Weird because I don't flirt or do anything. I think it's a good idea to as you mentioned to be straightforward, and just tell them what makes them think I'm gay, but I don't know if I'll get a straight answer.

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I've had this all my life, just not with gay married men. ALL men. I've even had tons of women (coworkers, etc) thinking I'm gay. I hate it because if they think I'm gay, that means they instantly are not attracted to me so it's like I'm instantly handicapped.

Yeah I know the strange feeling. I wonder if anyone is pissed or whatever if it happens to them, especially if they don't appear gay at all like me. It's kind of funny I guess.

[N604]

There are some odd people out there, some are really gay looking for your ass but some just want to be friendly and get out of their homes hahahha

[The Pact]

I wondered why this was happening to my late husband for a while. It turned out his business competitor spread a rumour that he was gay. The man had moved here from China and thought that would kill his competitor's business. That's why men kept asking him what time he knocked off from his mobile food van.

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I've had this all my life, just not with gay married men. ALL men. I've even had tons of women (coworkers, etc) thinking I'm gay. I hate it because if they think I'm gay, that means they instantly are not attracted to me so it's like I'm instantly handicapped.

It does NOT mean they are instantly not attracted to you, but it does mean they won't want to offend you by hitting on you because a lot of gay men get all kinds of creeped out by having woman lust for them.

[XtremeDiscount]

Dude, more men especially married suddenly approach me with subtle gayness. When I'm at a camp laundry, there was a meaningless encounter. One asked for my number at a resort. Another said we should attend a restaurant and watch my favorite documentaries. I don't carry any gay vibes. It's like they think or want me to be queer, or I'm in a parallel universe or some shit. Does this happen often?

I wouldn't consider myself a chick magnet (as I would like), but ladies are more discreet signs to me.

I don't have the best luck with girls, but am handsome but just underweight, gotta get my weight up, gay guys hit on me a lot and I'm like wow how about the women lmao. Nothing against gay people at all I find them funny and they have fun personalities but I'm straight thank you haha. One thing I gotta say about gay people, they are really tough individuals when you think about all the stigma and shit they have the endure, and they still stay themselves and keep pushing.

One time I went to Fire Island on business and it was such a unique funny fucking place. The people were a lot of fun to be around and I wish I can be that happy. I'll never forget the landlord I was trying to make real estate deal with was walking down a block and there were tough looking spanish laborers working on a building that looked completely normal, and even they were gay going "Oh hiiiii Richieeeeeee!". When I was younger going to a tough school in New York it was looked down upon, but being a mature adult I kind of idolize them and they're free spirits. Fire Island was great, it's like they have they're own planet hahaha.

I was in an ok mood too, was having my drinks and the gay staff at the restaurant's energy rubbed off on me, they were there to be happy, have a nice time, and I started to have lots of fun. One guy seemed interested in me though flirting with me and I straight out told him "I love you all but let's not get carried away now!" and looked at him in a jokingly stay away matter and we laughed so hard we were both laughing hysterically. They really are good people lol!

[Rsynced]

From what I understand you could actually be gay but you haven't realised it yet. You need to understand your attractions and feelings and it's okay to explore and discover what feels right for you.

OP it is ok to be gay we are here for you.

So I should just test by putting my penis in a mans mouth?

[Sam]

So I should just test by putting my penis in a mans mouth?

I wouldn't recommend that since it would be considered sexual assault. You would be better of asking someone who is gay and has experience with this.

[jcole]

If someone approaches me on some SUS shit then I just be polite and exit out of the conversation. I find it hard to believe married men are approaching you on some gay shit. More than likely just want a friend for that moment in time.

[Rsynced]

I wouldn't recommend that since it would be considered sexual assault. You would be better of asking someone who is gay and has experience with this.

Just messing around man. 😆

[hayesh]

this has happened to me before I dont know what to make of it