[HF.Psych]

So,

I was in Mcdonalds last night with my friend, she ordered her food and we sat. This girl was cleaning the place, she's really nice. We chatted for like a few minuets, and we left. But she's been on my mind all night, saw her again and caught her name badge. Found her on FB but I'm too much of a pussy to chat to her in person, so should I just message her on FB?

[Xo-Zo]

Speak to her irl,Facebook will make you look like a stalker

[lol]

Speak to her irl,Facebook will make you look like a stalker

Yep, this...

Keep talking to her in IRL. Few times later, ask her if she has Facebook and see if you can add her.

[Blogger]

Yes, that is creepy. If a guy I didn't personally know, or a customer I spoke to once, tried adding me on anything I would find it fucking creepy and steer clear of him.

[Nate]

Yeah thats very creepy, I would ask for her socials before you msg

[GXCS]

Whenever you find someone you like just go say hi it doesn't hurt.

[Mr. Robot]

All this pussies up above, just hit her up on facebook and just be like - caught your name tag while we were at mcdonalds and thought i'd hit you up. Really enjoyed chatting with ya.

It's not hard or creepy. She will either be happy with the message or not. Only one way to find out - if she thought it was creepy you messaging her, it's even creepier hitting her up in person - making her uncomfortable.

[Cap Talk]

All this pussies up above, just hit her up on facebook and just be like - caught your name tag while we were at mcdonalds and thought i'd hit you up. Really enjoyed chatting with ya.

It's not hard or creepy. She will either be happy with the message or not. Only one way to find out - if she thought it was creepy you messaging her, it's even creepier hitting her up in person - making her uncomfortable.

This is the best advice given thus far. Agreed.

[Mr. Robot]

This is the best advice given thus far. Agreed.

It's like people on HF grew up with social media always existing and think of it like it's more personal than being up in their face.

On social media she can just ignore or block you. In person she can feel pressured and uncomfortable. Shit this is what I would message her on media.

"Hey! I noticed your name tag the other night while you were working and enjoyed chatting with you. Didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable at work so thought i'd give you a message through here"

And if you are really beta.

""Hey! I noticed your name tag the other night while you were working and enjoyed chatting with you. Didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable at work so thought i'd give you a message through here, bit creepy I guess but thought you were really interesting to chat to."

[Cap Talk]

It's like people on HF grew up with social media always existing and think of it like it's more personal than being up in their face.

Its almost like people communicated and mated before social media existed. Wonder how they did that?

[Mr. Robot]

Its almost like people communicated and mated before social media existed. Wonder how they did that?

Seriously lmao. People need to grow some balls.

Even though I think it's perfectly fine to ask for her socials in person, when are you going to do it? Intentionally go down while she's at her place of work where her focus is making money to pay for the shit to get her through to another week (cleaning) and then make her possibly feel uncomfortable by being either;
A.) Creepy and possibly making her concerned you are waiting for her after work.
B.) Uncomfortably handing out her social media to you to make it less awkward.

Not saying you can't ask her in person but this idea of it being creepier to ask on SM is stupid.

[Bastille]

The answer always depends on one thing buddy :  The Girl  🤮

Maybe she likes shy guys and she will appreciate that you noticed her name and you didn't intend to disturb her when she was working, she will think it's cute to talk to her from FB because you don't want to annoy her at her job  👍

However she could also think this weird and psychopathic by stalking her on FB and looking and her boobs when she was giving you your order  😟 , you can also talk to her at her work, maybe she would be in a good mood, having a good day and telling you : Let's get a drink after my work, I end my day in 20 minutes  😊  Or maybe she will tell you : I already have a boyfriend (even if she doesn't even have one) so please stop sexual assaulting me  😠

So the best answer is : IT DEPEEEEEEENDS  😅

Welcome to "I find a girl cute's world and I don't know how it will end"  👍

[Mr. Robot]

The answer always depends on one thing buddy :  The Girl  🤮

Maybe she likes shy guys and she will appreciate that you noticed her name and you didn't intend to disturb her when she was working, she will think it's cute to talk to her from FB because you don't want to annoy her at her job  👍

However she could also think this weird and psychopathic by stalking her on FB and looking and her boobs when she was giving you your order  😟 , you can also talk to her at her work, maybe she would be in a good mood, having a good day and telling you : Let's get a drink after my work, I end my day in 20 minutes  😊  Or maybe she will tell you : I already have a boyfriend (even if she doesn't even have one) so please stop sexual assaulting me  😠

So the best answer is : IT DEPEEEEEEENDS  😅

Welcome to "I find a girl cute's world and I don't know how it will end"  👍

Numerous studies have been done on this.

Females will tend to find it creepy only if the guy isn't attractive to her. While if you are ugly, it's more likely she will find it creepy.

[HF.Psych]

Well I just messaged her, kinda felt awkward but hey, if it fails I'll just have to learn to enjoy KFC

[Mr. Robot]

Well I just messaged her, kinda felt awkward but hey, if it fails I'll just have to learn to enjoy KFC

Good luck, who knows? In a year from now you could be living together.