Apr 21, 2020 06:15 PM
(This post was last modified: Apr 21, 2020 06:15 PM by 4dik.)
]So in my opinion I think the age I would wanna be to have a kid at would be around 23-26 because you'll still be young and active with your child!
You have some life experience, and you can always have another kid later and fix your mistakes with the next if you plan to have more than one kid
What age do you think is a good age?
Depends on several things, including emotional maturity, stability, fertility, etc.
We should have children when we are ready to. Ideally, that would be 20-25 years old in my opinion.
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Apr 21, 2020 06:17 PM
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(Apr 21, 2020 06:15 PM)4dik Wrote: ]So in my opinion I think the age I would wanna be to have a kid at would be around 23-26 because you'll still be young and active with your child!
You have some life experience, and you can always have another kid later and fix your mistakes with the next if you plan to have more than one kid
What age do you think is a good age?
I believe you are a native arabic speaker? Your post aligned to left.
I would wish to have kid at age of 30-32 at least. (You should enjoy your married life before you take on more responsibilities,)
(Apr 21, 2020 06:16 PM)Malthemar Wrote: Depends on several things, including emotional maturity, stability, fertility, etc.
We should have children when we are ready to. Ideally, that would be 20-25 years old in my opinion.
True true, but you also have to see some people also can't have a baby and don't think fertility should be added, for me I'm considered infertile and don't I will ever be able to become fertile
Personally, I would not recommend it.
(Apr 21, 2020 06:17 PM)Ṩภiͥpeͣrͫ丹geภt Wrote: I believe you are a native arabic speaker? Your post aligned to left.
I would wish to have kid at age of 30-32 at least. (You should enjoy your married life before you take on more responsibilities,)
No actually I just clicked the wrong align haha! and why do you want a kid in your thirties if you don't mind me asking?
I'm thinking around 30. Because to me even 40-45 is still young af, and i'll probably lack stability before !
Apr 21, 2020 06:19 PM
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(Apr 21, 2020 06:18 PM)SIM-3738253 Wrote: Personally, I would not recommend it.
My I ask why?
(Apr 21, 2020 06:19 PM)Exposed74 Wrote: I'm thinking around 30. Because to me even 40-45 is still young af, and i'll probably lack stability before !
Really! Im surprised! Why do you say that?
I think there isn't an exact age, but rather a couple years after you get married. I think it's very important for kids to grow up with both a strong, loving father and mother figure and so I don't think it's rather about age, but when it's the right environment to raise a kid to the fullest.
(Apr 21, 2020 06:18 PM)4dik Wrote: True true, but you also have to see some people also can't have a baby and don't think fertility should be added, for me I'm considered infertile and don't I will ever be able to become fertile
All I meant was that the older people get, the less fertile they get too! 🙃
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(Apr 21, 2020 06:18 PM)4dik Wrote: No actually I just clicked the wrong align haha! and why do you want a kid in your thirties if you don't mind me asking?
I really want to enjoy my life with my partner without having worries about the kids. World tour, explore things, festivals, everything before I get back to serious things like kids.
Apr 21, 2020 06:21 PM
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(Apr 21, 2020 06:20 PM)Malthemar Wrote: All I meant was that the older people get, the less fertile they get too! 🙃
Ohh well it does only take one swimmer to get someone pregnant. my friends mom is 72 and shes 20 haha!
(Apr 21, 2020 06:21 PM)Ṩภiͥpeͣrͫ丹geภt Wrote: I really want to enjoy my life with my partner without having worries about the kids. World tour, explore things, festivals, everything before I get back to serious things like kids.
That makes alot of sense and I feel you on that one! Gotta do all the traveling before you gotta pay for those leeches :P haha
(Apr 21, 2020 06:20 PM)Aedan_ Wrote: I think there isn't an exact age, but rather a couple years after you get married. I think it's very important for kids to grow up with both a strong, loving father and mother figure and so I don't think it's rather about age, but when it's the right environment to raise a kid to the fullest.
Yes but lets say you've been dating a girl since high school or for a long time and that is all stable! What age do you think you would wanna have on that everything is perfect
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Hmm, I would have to say as long as you are mentally prepared and financial capable to have one.
I would say the best age would be 25-33
(Apr 21, 2020 06:19 PM)Exposed74 Wrote: I'm thinking around 30. Because to me even 40-45 is still young af, and i'll probably lack stability before !
Earth is going to shit, maybe I'm just a pessimist, but I feel like bringing a child into this world at this point in time is an act of evil. Obviously it isn't up to me to decide what you should do, but that is my own philosophy when it comes to having children.
Another reason why I say this is because you give up a large amount of freedom when you have a child. You are suddenly not independent and you cannot make any progress on yourself or things that you want to do for at least 20 years. My advice is as soon as you feel like you've accomplished everything that you want to accomplish for the foreseeable future, then I say do it.
(Apr 21, 2020 06:15 PM)4dik Wrote: ]So in my opinion I think the age I would wanna be to have a kid at would be around 23-26 because you'll still be young and active with your child!
You have some life experience, and you can always have another kid later and fix your mistakes with the next if you plan to have more than one kid
What age do you think is a good age?
Your choice bracket is definitely an ideal age to have kids, the question is...are you ready for the obligations?
You need to be matured enough to face all the trials you will be facing once you've got a family of your own, though it's really fun when you've got your own kid/s...it's a life changing but definitely worth every sacrifices you will be exerting. ✌😁✌
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