So i broke off my 1 year long relationship because of some issues we are having. i do have another lets just say "hook up partner". i have been at my hook ups place since sunday (we are polamorus), we broke up yesterday (me and my ex) and she has a 14 month old child that i have called my daughter for almost year now since her biological dad is out of the picture. after we broke up she mentioned how im not allowed around her kid anymore cause if i "couldnt accept my ex for who she is why would i accept the child for who she is"
Last night my "hook up" partner messaged my ex while i was asleep, she (the hook up) tried starting drama with my ex over nothing then she proceeded to bring up my exs child calling her a "over grown cumshot", "cum monkey" and as well said "i hope the baby sperm sleeps without a father figure in her life". my ex knows how much i love her child like my own, and hook up girl knows i am the only father figure the kid has.
but when i seen some of the messages i got upset with my ex cause to me that is thier own drama, and i am preety upset at how my ex said i could'nt be around her child anymore. she is saying that "if i love/loved her child i should have stood up and done something about how my hook up said all of that about a child i call my daughter", and that she regrets the things she said about me not seeing the child anymore, and she even wants to be with me again if i do something about what the hook up said. but why should i care anymore about the kid?
so my question is.. am i in the wrong for being okay with my hook up talking crap on a child i love/loved? or should have i stuck up for the child?
reply below with any opinions/suggestions on this....
Last night my "hook up" partner messaged my ex while i was asleep, she (the hook up) tried starting drama with my ex over nothing then she proceeded to bring up my exs child calling her a "over grown cumshot", "cum monkey" and as well said "i hope the baby sperm sleeps without a father figure in her life". my ex knows how much i love her child like my own, and hook up girl knows i am the only father figure the kid has.
but when i seen some of the messages i got upset with my ex cause to me that is thier own drama, and i am preety upset at how my ex said i could'nt be around her child anymore. she is saying that "if i love/loved her child i should have stood up and done something about how my hook up said all of that about a child i call my daughter", and that she regrets the things she said about me not seeing the child anymore, and she even wants to be with me again if i do something about what the hook up said. but why should i care anymore about the kid?
so my question is.. am i in the wrong for being okay with my hook up talking crap on a child i love/loved? or should have i stuck up for the child?
reply below with any opinions/suggestions on this....
