[Pusheen]

Hey everyone, I've seen this floating around a lot lately on things I look at, so I thought I'd ask people here what they thought about it.

Let's say you meet a girl/guy on [BRAND NAME REMOVED], at a club, or somewhere else with the intention of hooking up. You hook up, do the deed, and part ways the next morning.

My question is: would you let a one-time hookup turn into a relationship?

Would you call them back if you really enjoyed the sex, with the intention of it becoming a relationship type deal, or keep it strictly sexual? I've had friends tell me that they'd never let one of their hookups become a relationship partner, mostly because they wonder about how easily they could get picked up by someone else if they did it with little to no effort.

I'd like to hear what you have to say about this.

[Phixy The God]

If you genuinely enjoy that person and have fun with that person adn you both care about each other i dont see why not.

[deiski]

Yeah lets just turn someone that was easily pickupable into a long time partner kk

[Martino]

Yeah lets just turn someone that was easily pickupable into a long time partner kk

Exactly . Why would you do this to yourself

[Pusheen]

Exactly . Why would you do this to yourself

Yeah, that was my friend's whole argument. I completely agree with it, because if I can pick someone up at the club in 5 minutes flat, and then have them back at my place doing the nasty, who's to say someone else couldn't do the exact same thing?

Not to mention that you'd probably be freaking out every time they went out clubbing by themselves, which would probably drive you to the point of insanity. To each their own, though.

[Celica]

I did that and it was one of my most costly mistakes of my life. Never again will that shit happen to me.

[MadMango]

why not.. if you eat pizza and you liked it first time you wanna eat them again and again .. simple logic .. do things what makes you happy :)

[deiski]

Yeah, that was my friend's whole argument. I completely agree with it, because if I can pick someone up at the club in 5 minutes flat, and then have them back at my place doing the nasty, who's to say someone else couldn't do the exact same thing?

Not to mention that you'd probably be freaking out every time they went out clubbing by themselves, which would probably drive you to the point of insanity. To each their own, though.

You shouldn't let your girl club alone regardless anyway wat

[Eagerkid]

If you actually like the person then I dont see why not

[deiski]

If you actually like the person then I dont see why not

I answered the why not above your post.

[Disable.]

I mean, it's probably not what the other person wanted out of it, and it's probably not gonna work out. But if by some miracle things seem to fall into place, then I just MIGHT.

[TomHimself]

Hey everyone, I've seen this floating around a lot lately on things I look at, so I thought I'd ask people here what they thought about it.

Let's say you meet a girl/guy on [BRAND NAME REMOVED], at a club, or somewhere else with the intention of hooking up. You hook up, do the deed, and part ways the next morning.

My question is: would you let a one-time hookup turn into a relationship?

Would you call them back if you really enjoyed the sex, with the intention of it becoming a relationship type deal, or keep it strictly sexual? I've had friends tell me that they'd never let one of their hookups become a relationship partner, mostly because they wonder about how easily they could get picked up by someone else if they did it with little to no effort.

I'd like to hear what you have to say about this.

First of all, I prefer hooking up with girls inside my social circle, so it's usually not a one-time thing, but more like a few-times thing. Second, I'm not interested in a serious/committed relationship at this point and I make it clear early enough, so, no, I'd never let it turn into more.

[Accessory]

So what if she was "easily pickupable" she was at the club enjoying herself and having fun, there is nothing wrong with that. And she was probably single. But if she really was like that and was "easy and fast" then no i wouldn't have a relationship with her.