Hey guys,
so my girlfriend of almost 11 months left me today without any explanation and didn't even tell me she just removed me from all her shit and then a friend told me some stuff she said on her snap private story etc etc.
So I'm feeling really down and horrible inside
can i get some advice from you guys
im 16 and we go to the same college and im almost 100% sure she's talking to a boy who is in our lessons at college too.
This sucks and some advice on not feeling sad and upset would be great just want to be able to get through this feeling happy on the other side
Please no negative shit and arguing I just would like to feel a little better and not be put down even more
thanks
Keep yourself busy and you won't feel a thing.
Hey listen, it may not look like it now but you'll be better off on the long term. Keep your chin up and do well in class!
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(Sep 15, 2019 10:26 AM)Rigel Wrote: Hey listen, it may not look like it now but you'll be better off on the long term. Keep your chin up and do well in class!
thanks buddy
I am just thinking about moving colleges too,
it takes me an hour to get there via my dad in the morning as he works about 20 minutes away from there.
I was thinking to going to something called "student support" and just maybe going there to get some stuff off of my chest and all as well
My advice for you is forget about her and move on bro,Better is coming
(Sep 15, 2019 10:36 AM)One Wrote: My advice for you is forget about her and move on bro,Better is coming
I hope man
this feeling really hurts and I wouldn't want it to happen to anyone.
Girls are so twisted and manipulative
Keep that mind busy, bro! If your mind has time to think, it'll analyze the shit out of the situation and drive you mad. Just take comfort in the fact that you're only 16 and this is just one of probably many "relationships" you'll have in high school. She is NOT the last girl.
(Sep 15, 2019 10:40 AM)Blogger Wrote: Keep that mind busy, bro! If your mind has time to think, it'll analyze the Clay Davis out of the situation and drive you mad. Just take comfort in the fact that you're only 16 and this is just one of probably many "relationships" you'll have in high school. She is NOT the last girl. Thanks buddy
I hope i get through this with a happy mind i just don't want to see her with another guy and shit it's killing me.
(Sep 15, 2019 10:44 AM)Anciety Wrote: Thanks buddy
I hope i get through this with a happy mind i just don't want to see her with another guy and Clay Davis it's killing me.
She is free to do whatever she wants, you as well
She doesn't owe you anything, so just move on.
(Sep 15, 2019 10:53 AM)๖ۣۜApocalypse Wrote: She is free to do whatever she wants, you as well
She doesn't owe you anything, so just move on.
I understand that but it's not what i want as of right now but It is what it is.
She could at least owe me an explanation but I suppose I won't get one.
I have college with her tomorrow and I mean it's her call if she sits with me
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Sorry to read this my man, but you gotta get back out there and keep busy. Don't let yourself drown in thoughts of her or reminders of her. She's nothing now, so don't even think of her. Get out there and do your thing.
Unfortunately until you're into your 20s it's almost impossible to find a lasting relationship.
I'm sorry to hear it hasn't worked out for you, and I know it feels like crap. Trust me.
But at the end of the day, it's over now. Do you want to spend all your time moping or become the best you that you're happy with? Make her wish she was still with you in 6 months time (don't take her back though).
It will pass, you just need to wait some time and don't think about her, unless you are planning to get her back somehow.
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All i can do is think and check social media,
it's just a direct thing I keep doing and im struggling not to.
All I can think about is tomorrow and thinking I'm going to see her flirting and shit with other boys I know it will probably happen but it will crush me to see it.
You still have your whole life ahead of you. If it wasn’t meant to be then fine! You will move on and be much happier with someone else.
chin up
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