[JoseMar]

Dont tell your plans to anyone until you do them keep them for yourself

Maybe you say but why because my parents wants my good and they are not envious on me etc

Well lets say you want to became a succesful entrepreneur who travel around the world and your parents invested in you a lot of money in your university

They will believe you are crazy with this online business thing and its the bigges mistake to dont follow your path by becaming an engineer ,lawyer ,doctor etc

So honestly, I learned this pretty late in life. I don’t know why? but mate… that’s how it is.🤯 I don’t know what it is that stops things from happening when you talk about them or tell someone what you plan to do, but if I tell anyone what I want to do in the future… that’s it. It’s over. 😵 I won’t do that thing anymore, no matter what.🤐

Now, many people might say it’s just a superstition, but for the past few years since I stopped telling people what I want to do… guess what? I actually manage to get it done.

Well, +10 Popularity for this one mate! 🙂

The best advice I ever received was: don’t get involved in solving a problem you weren’t asked to solve.
Indeed, your energy will be wasted one way or another in all cases.

Yeah, and this advice is really good too, and honestly I just wanted to help with something and guess what, I ended up looking like the fool… well, it’s best to just mind your own business and not get involved in other people’s stuff.

Nice advice, I already gave you +10 pop,a long time ago 🙂

[diablospartan]

So honestly, I learned this pretty late in life. I don’t know why? but mate… that’s how it is.🤯 I don’t know what it is that stops things from happening when you talk about them or tell someone what you plan to do, but if I tell anyone what I want to do in the future… that’s it. It’s over. 😵 I won’t do that thing anymore, no matter what.🤐

Now, many people might say it’s just a superstition, but for the past few years since I stopped telling people what I want to do… guess what? I actually manage to get it done.

Well, +10 Popularity for this one mate! 🙂



Yeah, and this advice is really good too, and honestly I just wanted to help with something and guess what, I ended up looking like the fool… well, it’s best to just mind your own business and not get involved in other people’s stuff.

Nice advice, I already gave you +10 pop,a long time ago 🙂

Thanks my man

And yea i know the feeling as soon as you say your plans to someone you make a big mistake

I dont know why but many times it doesnt happen

[JoseMar]

Thanks my man

And yea i know the feeling as soon as you say your plans to someone you make a big mistake

I dont know why but many times it doesnt happen

Now this may sound strange, but my wife and I have a rule: we don’t tell almost anyone (only the people who actually need to know if they’re involved) what we want to buy or what we plan to do, and most of the time, 90% of the time we manage to achieve what we set out to do.🙂

I didn’t believe this until a few years ago.🤭

[Mitricutza]

What’s the Best Advice You Ever Got and
How Did It Change Your Life?

Here is one of the pieces of advice I got and how it changed my life.

Sometimes the best advice doesn’t come from “important people,” books, or moments when you’re actually looking for it. This is how I received one of the most important pieces of advice in my life.

It happened in a just normal moment, and honestly it wasn’t even deep. Someone just dropped a sentence that hit me harder than I expected:
*Whoever talks to you about others will eventually talk to others about you.* I had no idea in that moment how true that was.

Wait, let me be clear: I’m not talking about just one simple comment or a normal observation about someone. I’m just talking about people who come to you only to gossip, to spread negativity. And usually, this whole thing happens at the workplace. That’s where you see it the most. Colleagues whispering, moving from desk to desk, telling you something “just between us,” and then five minutes later telling someone else a story about you. 🤭

This advice changed my life.

After that day, I started choosing my friends and even my work relationships differently.🙂 It helped me keep toxic people out of my space, even if some would say I was exaggerating. For me, it wasn’t an exaggeration, it was a filter, a simple but extremely effective one.

And honestly? I think you should pay attention to. If someone (usually at work )comes to you often with stories about others, trust me, there's a 99% chance they will talk about you as well, and soon. Now think about it, It’s not philosophy, it’s just how some people work.

So now I’m curious:

• What advice have you received that changed your life?
  
• And do you think this one might help you choose your friends and colleagues more wisely?
  

I don’t like it when someone rolls their eyes. That annoys me the most. 😡

[JoseMar]

I don’t like it when someone rolls their eyes. That annoys me the most. 😡

Well, I understand what you’re saying, but this isn’t really advice…

[RiveR29]

Best advice I ever have gotten came from Uncle Iroh. Like un ironically

Maybe not straight, but I like to use his teachings with a twist to fit them to my life personally.

Like "In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength."

When I got into bad debt, I started to think that even tho I was fucked in a way at least I was not in jail.
That even tho I got myself deep into a hole, I could climb my way out by doing hard work etc.

Or

"Life happens wherever you are, whether you make it or not."

This made me understand that I am not the center of everyone elses life.
That I am only my own lifes main character.

[JoseMar]

Best advice I ever have gotten came from Uncle Iroh. Like un ironically

Maybe not straight, but I like to use his teachings with a twist to fit them to my life personally.

Like "In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength."

When I got into bad debt, I started to think that even tho I was fucked in a way at least I was not in jail.
That even tho I got myself deep into a hole, I could climb my way out by doing hard work etc.

Or

"Life happens wherever you are, whether you make it or not."

This made me understand that I am not the center of everyone elses life.
That I am only my own lifes main character.

Well, your Uncle Iroh is definitely a wise man.🙂 I didn’t know that first piece of advice, and honestly, it’s really beautiful.
+10 popularity for this one. Thanks.💯👍

[Zher0]

“Everybody, one day will die, and be forgotten. Act and behave in a way that will make life interesting and fun, fuck a mundane predictable life working monday to friday with something you derive no pleasure from; just living life out till you grow old and wither away. Find a passion, form relationships, dont be afraid to get out there and fuck what everyone else thinks, trust me its alot more fun that way.

Dont ever pay people out or put people down. Instead just put yourself up and let the haters do their thing. Id rather be a person thats hated on, than a person that does the hating. A wise man one said..

Haters gonna hate!”
― Zyzz

[fantomiuz]

As someone thats very perfectionistic, definitely "dont overthink it, just start."